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Eloping in Japan offers a unique blend of natural beauty and rich cultural traditions, creating  unforgettable experiences.  However, if you are just starting your planning journey, you might find yourselves a little overwhelmed by all the different elopement package elements you need to consider. This is where elopement planners come in. In truth, we don’t like to use the word “package.”  This implies that there is a cookie cutter approach to planning elopements, when in truth no two elopements are ever the same.  We build bespoke experiences from the ground up.  The only thing that our “packages” have in common, is that they all start with the same thing: planner and venue, without which, there can be no ceremony. In this brief Japanese elopement guide we will go through some of the different traditional Japanese wedding elements, and the not so traditional, that we can pull together to create the perfect Japanese elopement “package”. We’ll start with the basics for any package: Planning & Venue, Officiant, Photographer and Hair & Make Up. The Basics to our Elopement Packages in Japan Planner & Venue As noted above, the first step to planning an elopement in Japan, and the foundation of any package is booking a planner and selecting a venue.  Japan boasts a variety of stunning locations, from serene shrines and temples traditional gardens and villas to scenic mountain vistas. Popular venues include Kyoto's historic temples, picturesque secret gardens, and the breathtaking views of Mount Fuji. The planning fee generally covers initial consultations and on going planning, venue booking, and coordination of the various elements of your elopement. Hiring a local planner familiar with Japanese culture and logistics is invaluable, ensuring a smooth and stress-free experience. Officiant An essential component of your Japan elopement package is the wedding officiant, who will guide you through the ceremony and ensure all traditions are honored. The officiant is often venue dependent, for example: shinto priest in a shrine, buddhists monks in a temple or secular celebrant in a non-religious setting. In the case of secular wedding ceremonies, you can work with the officiant to build a script from the ground up or use one the templates he or she has on file.  For shinto and buddhist ceremonies, there is a series of set protocols that need to be observed and on-the-day rehearsals may be necessary. Regardless of the type of ceremony you opt for, the officiant not only formalizes the proceedings,  but also adds a layer of cultural depth and reverence, making your elopement truly special. Photographer Capturing the beauty and emotion of your elopement is essential, and a professional photographer can help preserve these memories forever. Our photographers have a unique eye for blending the couple with stunning natural and cultural backdrops. Whether it’s a candid moment in a bamboo forest or a posed shot in front of a historic shrine, the photographer will ensure every precious moment is documented. Some couples in the past have considered themselves to be camera shy and thought this element of less importance than others.  Many of the couples who come to us for vow renewals often express regret for not having a professional photographer on their own wedding day.  We would hate for you to experience the same, and urge you to consider this carefully. We have list of photographers, that we typically work with, whose styles you can see on our instagram profile: https://www.instagram.com/elopeinjapan/ All our photographers have different price points and styles.  So you can make your choice based on what is important to you. Hair and Makeup Rounding off the basics of any “package” is the Hair and Make Up.  To complete your look, professional hair and makeup artists are essential. Japanese stylists are known for their precision and attention to detail, ensuring you look flawless throughout the day. They can help you achieve traditional Japanese looks, such as the classic beauty of a Geisha-inspired makeup or a more contemporary bridal style, blending seamlessly with the cultural backdrop. The cost of Japanese stylists tends to be much more competitive than in the west, meaning you can have the vogue look without breaking the bank!  We have a set list of people we work with, all of whose styles you can see on the photos here on the website and on Instagram. Optional Extras Videographer A videographer complements the photographer by capturing the day’s events in motion, and compiling them into a highlights reel for later consumption.  It is also a great way to share your experience with those who might have not been able to make the trip. Imagine having a beautifully edited video that includes not just the ceremony but also the heartfelt toasts, joyous laughter, and serene moments of reflection. A videographer can also capture the unique sounds of the environment, like the rustle of leaves in a Zen garden or the chanting of monks, adding another layer of immersion to your memories. Kimono Wearing a kimono adds a profound cultural touch to your elopement. There are various types of kimono to choose from, each with its own significance and style.  The traditional white wedding kimono, known as "shiromuku," symbolizes purity and elegance.  Alternatively, you might opt for a more colorful "uchikake," often adorned with intricate patterns and embroidery. Dressing in a kimono enhances the visual aspect of the day and connects you deeply with Japanese heritage. It is important to note that the idea of “cultural appropriation” is not a thing in Japan.  So if you are on the fence about whether or note it is appropriate, don’t be.  When we are out on shoots, Japanese people often stop our couples to say they look great, beautiful or cool, and sometimes they stop and ask for a selfie!  The Japanese are clearly happy to see people appreciating and enjoying Japanese culture. We’re not here to tell you whether you should or shouldn’t wear a kimono. At the end of the day you must be comfortable with your decision.  But, do dispel any notions of “cultural appropriation” from your minds and make your decision with a clear conscience. It is your day, and part of our job is to make sure you have no regrets about any decisions you make or do not make. So go on, wear a kimono if you want to! Florist Floral bouquets play a significant role in any wedding, and for a Japanese elopement, they can add an extra layer of beauty and meaning. The choice of flowers can reflect personal preferences, seasonal availability, and traditional symbolism. Cherry blossoms, or "sakura," symbolize the fleeting nature of life and beauty, making them a poignant choice for spring elopements. Other popular options include peonies for good fortune and happiness, or chrysanthemums for longevity. Incorporating flowers into your bouquet, hair accessories or the grooms lapel not only enhances the aesthetic appeal of your ceremony but also connects you with Japanese cultural traditions, adding depth and significance to your special day. It is important to note that while in the west there is a tradition of having a bride’s fresh flower bouquet (or replica of) pressed and dried, none of these would make it through customs on your return trip. These days, with recent advances, artificial flowers offer the perfect, everlasting solution to this problem. Tea Ceremony Although not part of wedding traditions in Japan, a Japanese tea ceremony, or "sado," can be a peaceful and meaningful addition to your elopement. This ritual involves the ceremonial preparation and consumption of matcha, or powdered green tea. The tea ceremony embodies harmony, respect, purity, and tranquility, making it a perfect symbol of the union you are celebrating. Participating in this serene and reflective ritual can provide a moment of zen and connection amidst the excitement of the day. Japanese Traditional Music Incorporating traditional Japanese music into your ceremony can elevate the atmosphere and deepen the cultural experience. The gentle sounds of instruments like the koto (a stringed instrument) or the shakuhachi (a bamboo flute) provide a beautiful and soothing soundtrack. This music can accompany the ceremony, the tea ritual, or even the walk down the aisle, adding an authentic and emotional layer to the experience. Sake Barrel Ceremony The sake barrel ceremony, or "kagami-biraki," is a joyful tradition involving breaking open a barrel of sake to share with guests. This act symbolizes good fortune and harmony. Including this ceremony in your elopement adds a fun and interactive element and honors a time-honored Japanese tradition of celebration. We often describe this tradition along the same lines as the cake cut in the west. But whether you are eloping with or without the presence of guests, it is a great addition to the proceedings.  And it can also loosen you up before the main post-ceremony photo-session begins! If you are not much of a sake drinker, we can replace it with wine or beer or even halloween candy (yes, we have done this!) in the barrel!! San-San-Ku-Do The San-San-Ku-Do ceremony is a traditional sake-sharing ritual performed during Japanese Shinto Shrine weddings. The bride and groom take three sips each from three different cups of sake.  This symbolizes the binding of the couple, their families, and their mutual promises. This ritual, rich in meaning and history, is a profound way to seal your vows and create a lasting memory of unity and commitment. Whether or not you have a shrine wedding, weaving this into a secular ceremony is a great way of incorporating and honoring Japanese traditions, and makes for great photos! Enhancing the Experience To enhance your elopement further, consider additional elements such as: a pre or post ceremony day photo-shoot with your chosen photographer to capture some of the other amazing sites in Japan. ending your day at an amazing restaurant experiencing the finest Japanese cuisine can offer. Arranging a calligraphy lesson and immortalize your experience with some choice words written in picturesque Japanese characters. The list is endless! Find out more Planning an elopement package in Japan involves weaving together various elements that celebrate both your love and the beauty of Japanese culture.  From selecting a stunning venue to incorporating traditional rituals, every detail contributes to creating a memorable and deeply meaningful experience. If you are ready to start considering the options and plan your perfect elopement in Japan, reach out to us today and let's talk!

The rich cultural heritage and picturesque landscapes of Japan has made it an increasingly sought-after destination for weddings, attracting couples from around the world. Whatever your sexual orientation, we welcome you all. However, it is important to note that planning LGBT elopements in Japan requires a nuanced approach, which we will explore in this blog post. We will look at the intricacies of same-sex weddings in Japan, shedding light on the evolving landscape for same-sex couples looking to celebrate their love in this unique and captivating setting. Traditional Shrines and Secular Alternatives Traditionally, Shinto shrines have been the go-to venues for Japanese weddings, reflecting the country's deep cultural and religious roots. However, it's essential to acknowledge that sadly, most shrines do not currently offer same-sex wedding ceremonies, as Shinto rituals tend to adhere to traditional gender roles. For LGBT couples dreaming of tying the knot in Japan, this might initially seem like a hurdle. Nevertheless, a silver lining exists with secular alternatives. Various venues, such as gardens and event spaces, are increasingly open to hosting same-sex weddings. These spaces provide the perfect canvas for couples to paint their unique love story, free from the constraints of religious expectations. In fact, planning a secular ceremony allows you to include ceremonial elements from any religious denomination or culture, making the celebration more personal and unique. You can combine elements of traditional western scripts with nods to eastern traditions, creating a ceremony that truly reflects your love and beliefs. Temple Ceremonies and Inclusivity While shrines may present challenges for same-sex weddings, some buddhist temples in Japan are embracing inclusivity. A select few progressive temples are willing to officiate weddings for same-sex partnerships, offering a blend of tradition and acceptance. This signifies a positive step forward in recognizing and celebrating diverse expressions of love within the rich cultural context of Japan. Navigating Legal Realities Unfortunately, same-sex couples are still unable to apply for marriage licenses in the country... While this legal restriction might be disheartening, it need not overshadow the dreams of a same-sex elopement in Japan. Many couples choose to celebrate their love through commitment ceremonies and symbolic rituals, regardless of sexual preferences or legal formalities. LGBT Elopements in Japan Despite legal nuances, your unique love story remains unchanged. Japan can and will provide a welcoming environment where diversity is increasingly embraced. Navigating the landscape of LGBT weddings in Japan requires cultural sensitivity, adaptability, and creativity. Secular venues and progressive temples offer welcoming spaces for couples to craft their dream ceremonies. The legal restrictions should not overshadow the joy of celebrating love in a country that seamlessly blends tradition and modernity. Embrace the opportunity to create lasting memories in a land where cherry blossoms bloom. Contact Us! If you would like to see about planning your own LGBT elopement in Japan, reach out today. We would love to hear from you!

EDITED 27th September 2022 Yes, the borders are opening! As reported in Nikkei Asia, the borders are finally set to open without restrictions from the 11th October 2022! The announcement was made on Thursday 22nd September, and we are beyond excited to start welcoming you all to Japan next month! See original article See you soon! _______________________________________________________ Original Elope in Japan Blog Post From September 4th: If you are anything like us, you waited impatiently for the latest update from the Japanese government re the borders. And, you will likely have been left scratching your head trying to make head or tail of it all. At the end of the day, the question remains: can tourists enter Japan? The answer to this question is "yes". But there are a few caveats. Previously, in June 2022, the government announced that tourists could enter the country on guided tours operated by approved agencies. What the government didn’t bank on, was that guided tours are grossly unpopular with western travelers, who much prefer to go it alone. Historically, tourists from China have made up the bulk of tour groups. But with that country still closed to both inbound and outbound travel, they're not going anywhere... In the two months following the change of the rules, just 8000 tourists visited Japan. Compared with the daily entry limit of 20,000, this number is pitifully small… So, under pressure from businesses, foreign governments and the Japanese people, a change had to be made. Can tourists enter Japan? In order to fully understand the latest announcement from the government, we have been carefully reading the updates at the Ministry of Foreign Affairs website (a hard read!) and scouring the web for more easily accessible information. Our research has found the following: from September 7th, pre-departure PCR tests will no longer be required for those with three jabs entry visas will still be required solo tourists can come in as long as they compile their itinerary with a travel agent. They may be required to have a guide accompany them during the trip the daily border entry rate will be hiked to 50,000 travelers must purchase travel insurance to cover medical emergencies masking is still required indoors and in crowded places What we are NOT clear about yet, is if the travel agency has to be Japan based (there is conflicting information on this, and nothing about it at MOFA - Ministry of Foreign Affairs). We are also not one hundred percent sure if travelers need to be accompanied by a guide or not (again, either no information or conflicting information). What we are clear about, is that travelers can make a personalized itinerary with a travel agent who will monitor their health and safety while in Japan. The travel agent/sponsor/guide will also be required to apply for an ERFS certificate (Entry, Returnee Follow up System) which certifies the traveler's eligibility to enter Japan. If you want to come to Japan, you will be responsible for obtaining your own visa, but this will only be possible once you have obtained the ERFS certificate from a travel agency. You then need to present this to the embassy when applying for a visa. Assuming all goes well, you will be able to enter Japan. Once here, the tour guide/travel agency will monitor your health. In Short, the process is (as far as we can make out) as follows: Travel agency/business/organization applies for an ERFS certificate If approved, the certificate will be sent online to the Travel agency/ business/organization Travel agency/ business/organization - send ERFS to traveller Traveller - applies for a short stay visa from Japanese embassy in their home country, take the ERFS with you The visa is then processed Fly to Japan In Japan the Travel agency/ business/organization must monitor the traveller’s health. In the Japan, the traveller must comply with all anti-COVID measures. These changes will come into effect from 7th September 2022. Please note: this list is true as of August 2022, to the best of our knowledge, as per the information available to us. Be sure to do your own research before deciding to come to Japan. __________________________________________________________ IMPORTANT EDIT Updated 4th September 2022 - Source: Japan Tourism Agency (as of the time of writing, currently only available in Japanese) The new rules are as follows: Anyone can enter from any country No pre-flight PCR test required as long as travelers have three vaccine doses Travel agencies are responsible for booking the return flights and all accommodation. Itinerary is not required - tourists are free to travel solo once in the country, but must stay at all pre-arranged accommodation The travel agency is responsible for maintaining contact throughout the stay and providing guidance in the event of infection - this contact may be via telephone, email, text or SNS. Travellers must follow all anti-virus guidelines __________________________________________________________ What is it like in Japan? Right now (August 2022), Japan is riding a tsunami of Omicron cases, with average daily infections exceeding 200,000 for the last month or so. Throughout August Japan officially saw the highest number of infections in the world. But, it is important to put this into perspective: unlike most other countries, the government has still not downgraded the virus and testing is still much more widespread than elsewhere. The Japanese themselves see the virus as a nuisance rather than something to be feared. Even with the high infection rate, there have been no curbs internally. Domestic businesses operate as usual; there are no restrictions at bars and restaurants, and social distancing has in many cases been done away with. Indeed many commentators have noted the inconsistencies between the Japanese governments stance at the border and internally. Other social scientists have also noted cynically that changing the pre-flight PCR test requirements is solely to help the many Japanese travelers who find themselves stranded overseas. In June alone, over 170,000 Japanese tourists made foreign visits. It is widely expected that once cases finally start to come down, either artificially through downgrading the status of the virus or the lifecycle of the infection, the government will move again to further loosen restrictions at the border. Or, fingers crossed, drop them altogether! Whether you decide to try to make the trip now, under the latest rules, or wait until the country is fully reopened, we, and the rest of Japan, can't wait to welcome you!

Kyoto is an amazing city. And despite all the talk in the years before the pandemic about over tourism, it is still a special place. It is a magical place where time seems to have stood still. The city’s town houses - Kyomachiya - are still constructed using age old building techniques and materials. Old houses and buildings are maintained to look (almost) as good as new, and the 2000 shrines and temples that dot the city and the surrounding areas give it an almost otherworldly aura. We consider ourselves immensely lucky, because we have been able to visit Kyoto many, many times. In fact we love it there. If it were up to me, we would live there. But, Ayako is a Tokyo girl, through and through, so it will likely never never come to pass… Despite going there multiple times a year for the last few years, there was one thing that we had never done; something that we, or I, at least, have always wanted to do. And that was see the historical streets when no one else was around. Surely, this is the best time of day to enjoy Kyoto: when the city is asleep. The trouble is, the only time the city streets are deserted is in the dead of the night/early in the morning. If you are neither a night owl nor a lark this can present a challenge. The trouble for us is that whenever we go to Kyoto, we are in job-mode. We are focussed on getting the job done; making sure the couple is happy before going back to the hotel, ready for the return trip to Tokyo the next morning. If we have time, we might fit in a nice quiet meal at one of the many awesome restaurants in Ponto-Cho, the picturesque alley that runs parallel to the Kamo river that runs through the city. Our last visit there was very different however. And, in view of the fact that the borders have finally started to reopen, and to provide a little inspiration for your next trip to Japan, we thought we would share a little about our favorite city in Japan. Pandemic Era Kyoto In April 2021, the Delta COVID variant was still rampant. Because of this, there was a state-of-emergency across many parts of the country. This meant many eateries had to be closed by 7:30pm, and travel was pretty much discouraged. However, business travel was permitted. This particular trip actually coincided with Ayako’s birthday, so we wanted to do something special in our favourite city. So, following the successful completion of another beautiful elopement ceremony at one of Kyoto’s gorgeous world heritage temples, we went out for dinner before the curfew set in. Then, promptly, at 7:30pm, we left the restaurant in Gion and were greeted with something we had never seen before. You see, Gion is the heart of Kyoto city. It experiences something akin to rush hour right throughout the day. Yet, this day was different. There was no one around. Barely a soul. And the night was yet young! Everything was closed or closing and so we had nothing to do, except stop by Starbucks for an evening cuppa (take away, of course) and return to the hotel. But not before we performed a little personal pilgrimage. A Special Place Saying a spiritual “hi” to Ayako’s grandfather at Yasaka Jinja has become something of a Saito/Harrison tradition. He was born nearby and grew up around the shrine, so no trip feels complete with out a visit. But, this time, it was eerily quiet. And, you know what? It was all the more beautiful and meaningful! To be stood (almost) alone in a place with a history stretching back over 1,300 years is something to behold. The feeling is palpable. Well, it was for me. Whether we were feeling a tad melancholic because of the pandemic, or whether something really spiritual was actually happening can be debated. But, what cannot be debated is the beauty of the place at night, with so few people. We stood for ages just soaking in the atmosphere; staring at the lanterns almost in a trance-like state. Whatever stresses we were feeling about the continuing pandemic seemed to just fall away; all that mattered was the here and now. At any other time, to get the place all to oneself, you would have to come here at three o’clock in the morning, yet here we were at eight o’clock in the evening: a time when it is usually still bustling with the energy of people passing through, market vendors and other visitors. With nothing else open, we made our way back to the hotel and were in bed by 9pm! The next morning. Up at 4:00 AM. Excited. Like a kid on Christmas morning. Still dark; to be expected, this was late April, after all. At 4:15 AM I am out of the hotel and on to the historical streets of picturesque Ninnenzaka. If you are not a night owl, then early morning must be the best time of day to enjoy Kyoto. Now, one might think that walking through narrow historical alleys in the dark would be quite creepy. But, quite the opposite! It was incredibly peaceful, almost spiritual, and I am not a spiritual guy. By this time it was about 4:30 AM, and the sky was slowly starting to brighten behind the hills to the east of the city. Silhouettes were starting to form revealing the unique, beauty all around. The first unmistakable form is of another favourite, Hokanji Temple Pagoda. It is a shape that is instantly recognisable to any Japanophile and those with merely a passing interest. As the sun rose higher into the sky, I just had a blast with the camera. It was so quiet, I was alone (Ayako hadn’t joined me yet) and I could just take my time and think about each shot. Kiyomizu Temple But the experience wasn’t over yet. Kiyomizu-dera, perhaps one of the most recognizable temples in Kyoto and/or perhaps the whole of Japan was just up the road. We couldn’t go back to Tokyo without a visit; especially so early in the morning. At opening time, 6:00 AM, there were already a few others waiting to get in. But not the thousands upon thousands that you would find later in the day, during normal sightseeing times. Kiyomizu sits on the side of a hill, over looking a valley and with clear views back to the city. By the time we entered the temple complex, the sun had lit up the hills on the opposite side of the valley. It was stunning. I shot one of my all time personal favourite photos here. My only regret? I hadn’t taken more time to frame up a second shot in landscape orientation. But, it makes a great wall paper for my phone! The temple side of the hill, was still in the shadow. But standing virtually alone on the main temple deck overlooking the valley and city: something else! The next items on the bucket list will be to visit the temple in Autumn to get the changing leaves, and then again in Spring, during the cherry blossom period. Perhaps next year?! One the way back to the hotel for breakfast, the sun was fully up and the streets, still deserted, now had a lovely peaceful charm. Taking our time, we continued to soak up the calm quiet of the area, wondering, if and when we will be back. Obviously, there is a lot more to Kyoto than Gion, Ninennzaka and Kiyomizu. There is Kinkakuji, Ginkakuji, Ryoanji, Sanjusangendo and the famous Philosopher’s Path to name a few other places of note. However, on your next trip out here, be sure to make time to see the city in the wee hours of the morning, when most people are asleep, which is surely the best time of day to enjoy Kyoto. And the best part about seeing it at this time of day? It doesn't cost anything!

You are considering a magical elopement in Japan. Great! These days, more and more people like you are are choosing to elope out here. It has become one of the best places in the world for romantic, intimate settings in which couples choose to say “I do.” But, what does this, mean; what are the options and what exactly is an elopement in Japan? Before we answer that, we should first define what we mean by “elopement,” since there are a number of competing ideas about this. We consider an elopement to be an intimate ceremony for the bride and groom and (maybe) a few guests. It typically takes around 5 hours from hair and makeup to completion. However, can go longer if desired. It is an event designed to put the focus solely on the couple, by removing the stress usually associated with larger wedding planning. An eloping couple have more options than those opting for a more traditional wedding day. All elopements in Japan are romantic. They are wonderful experiences full of magic, mystique and wonder. Whether you are looking fro something more traditional or modern, Japan has something for everyone. Let’s look at some of the options. Garden Elopement An elopement in Japan could be at one of the many picturesque Japanese gardens in Tokyo and beyond. Of course here, they just call them Gardens! (Those who know Friends will get this joke!) Some are set among the splendor of world heritage sites. Others might be in the mountains or even a quiet suburb of Tokyo, where we have found some hidden gems. Whether you want to dress up in full wedding kimono, something a little more low key or full on western attire, a garden can offer the perfect setting for you to say your personal vows. Garden elopements are perfect for those who want something low key, encompassing a simple ceremony and photo-shoot. These were our bread and butter when we started this business, and some of our best client interactions have taken place in these gardens. Shrine Elopement An elopement in Japan can be a ceremony for two at a shinto shrine. Experience the magic and mystique of Japan’s indigenous religion on your day, in a stunning setting. There are some beautiful shrines available, some conveniently located close to major transport hubs, others more secluded in the heart of the Japanese countryside. Which ever you choose, you can be sure of an incredible experience. It is an opportunity to wear a traditional kimono and feel like a princess. Our wonderful kimono vendors will take you through the selection and fitting. They will accompany you everywhere before and during the ceremony, like your very own lady in waiting. Some shrines are cool with couples opting for western wedding attire too! World Heritage Temple Elopement An elopement in Japan could be at a 1000 year old, World Heritage Temple in Kyoto. Many people choose to get married in Japan because it is different. How many people can say they got married at a world heritage temple in Kyoto? You can’t get much more different than that. You could experience the majesty of a Buddhist ceremony or have a much more personal ceremony in a private garden on the temple grounds. Mount Fuji Elopement An elopement in Japan could be against the backdrop of the conical shape of the Mt. Fuji. If you are a fan of nature and mountains, this iconic mountain could be your personal backdrop as you say “I do”! There are a number of spots to choose from, some quite accessible, others not so. But anywhere with a view of Mount Fuji is special. Secluded Elopement An elopement in Japan could be in the secluded setting of a private house and/or garden. With so many picturesque houses up and down the country, but especially in Kyoto, you can be spoilt for choice! Some of these houses double up as accommodation too, so you can extend the magic even longer than the wedding day itself. Nature Elopement Beyond Mt. Fuji, an elopement in Japan can be on the beach, in the mountains, by a lake, next to a waterfall or even a bamboo forest. If you are more of the "adventure type" it could even be in the mountains of Nagano or Hokkaido. It could be deep in the forest during momiji season (autumn changing leaves), or beneath the cherry blossom in some private garden or secluded countryside spot. City Elopement For the more cosmopolitan types, what could be more romantic than enjoying the romantic city lights? Perhaps even include a mini photo-tour around the city, taking in some of the iconic parts of Tokyo, Kyoto or beyond. Honeymoon An elopement in Japan is the wedding ceremony and honeymoon rolled into one. Go straight from the ceremony/photo-shoot to your honeymoon on the same day. Extend the magic of the wedding day throughout your whole stay in Japan. You won’t want to leave and you’ll forever have a unique connection with Japan. Furthermore, Ayako is a certificated travel consultant. That and our combined knowledge of the country, means we can be your personal concierge here in Japan. Whether you opt to elope in a shrine, temple, garden, countryside or city, an elopement in Japan is Romantic. It is all about you. We are here to make your day your way! Get in touch, we want to hear from you!

Why do you want to Elope in Japan? This is a great question and many couples will give lots of different reasons for doing so. We can’t possibly begin to start covering them all, but we can highlight the most common seven reasons people give for Eloping in Japan. For those who want to skip the preamble, and get straight to the relevant points, the 7 reasons to elope in Japan, as given by our couples, are: Stress management It’s cost effective Some people are shy It’s an adventure It’s eco friendly There are no guest list concerns Japanese culture For more detailed ideas, read on! #1 Stress Management This is perhaps the most common reason couples give for choosing to elope over having a traditional wedding day. Wedding planning can be very stressful; there is a lot going on. A lot of people are involved and naturally, there are many things happening all at once and more often than not, there are so many people to please. Now, don’t get us wrong: we love weddings.! We have had a lot of fun planning weddings and have worked with some awesome couples and have enjoyed many wonderful and memorable events. All wedding planning comes from a place of excitement and love. However, after a few planning meetings, we often hear things like: “My mother wants…;” “My aunt thinks…;” “My sister says…,” or even “My father insists on…” These may be well and good IF, and it is a big “if”, the ideas, desires and opinions of the others align with those of the couple. However, rarely they do… And each time we hear this, we notice a small spark of joy in the process extinguish in the eyes of our couples. And this is very sad. Too many people feel they should have a voice and couples often find themselves carrying out a very delicate balancing act of having the day they want and pleasing the people in their lives. On top of this, there are all the other little elements that go in to putting on a traditional wedding: sending out invitations; planning the color scheme, decor and stationary; deciding who to include in the wedding party; what menu to choose; what to do with the kids and elderly; seating charts; entertainment and a whole host of other things I can’t think of right now. In an elopement there are fewer people and things to worry about, making the whole process so much more fun. You can make decisions and change your mind, include the elements that matter to you and design a day that truly reflects who you are as a couple. Then, at the end of it all, you will have a day that you can look back on without any regrets; a day filled with love, lots of wonderful moments and many wonderful memories. And isn’t that what it is all about? Creating those lifelong memories that feed your soul forever?! In an elopement less is more. With fewer things to stress about, you can just enjoy the day, take your time and live in the moment. Where better to do that than in Japan? #2 It’s Cost effective! In short: dollars spent on a holiday and elopement in Japan will go further than dollars spent on a big wedding at home. Really, it’s a no-brainer! The average cost of weddings is on the rise. These days, this is around £30,000 ($40,000), or about a year’s wages (again, an average). And when you add the cost of the honeymoon on top of this, it can well mean that some couples find themselves starting their married life in debt! When you consider that one of the main reasons couples fight is about money, this is a stress you could well do without! An Elopement, however, is only a fraction of the costs of a traditional wedding. And it can combine the honeymoon with the ceremony. Since there are only the two of you, and maybe one or two guests, the total costs for the trip and the wedding may well be as little as a quarter of the average wedding! The folks over at moneywehave.com have calculated the average cost of a trip to Japan for one person, summarized below: Airfare: $800 (Assuming you are coming from the US) JR Rail Pass: $435 (depending on your itinerary, this may not be necessary) Accommodation: $1750 ($125/day, many hotels less than half this) Local Transport: $140 Attractions: $120 (Museum, shrine, temple entry) Food: $560 ($40/day, assuming you don’t go anywhere swanky) Day-to-day Spending: $200 (Convenience stores, cafes, street vendors) TOTAL: $4005 Be sure to check out the full post here: https://www.moneywehave.com/how-much-does-it-cost-to-go-to-japan/ When you also consider that the average cost of an elopement falls between $4500 & ¥8500, the total cost of your trip to Japan and elopement might be less than 40% the cost of a full wedding at home. It really is that cost effective. #3 Some people are just shy! Standing up in front of hundreds of friends and family can fill even the most seasoned public speaker with dread... Standing alone with the person you love in a beautiful Japanese setting does not! This is actually quite a common reason people give for choosing an elopement over a traditional wedding. Speaking from personal experience, the idea of sitting down to plan a speech and then deliver it was something of a blot on an otherwise great day. I am not the kind of person who gets nervous standing up in front of people, much less my friends and family. However, the memory of the speech I had to give is something I would rather forget. I know I am not alone. If you are shy, you don’t need to put yourself through this. Why do something that you will look back on with regret?! An Elopement in Japan will be filled with love, awe and excitement: isn’t that how you want to remember your day? #4 It’s an adventure! Traditionally, the very idea of an elopement was seen as an act of rebellion. These days it is viewed more kindly, as an act of adventure. It is a chance for couples to travel to far flung destinations for their “I dos” and to create wonderful, unique memories as they start their new lives together. Eloping in Japan is all about creating unique experiences, and few places are more unique! Japan has everything. For those seeking thrill, there are world class ski resorts, some great hiking trails, white water rafting courses, horseback archery, and even bungee jumping! And of course, the more traditional pursuits such as shrine and temple visits, exotic food and general sightseeing. Since Japan is like no other country, whatever you do, where ever you go it will feel like the adventure of a lifetime! #5 It’s eco-friendly! Truth be told, this is not a reason that people actually give for choosing to elope in Japan. However, it is one that we think heavily favors elopements over traditional weddings. In this day and age when the need to reduce our environmental impact is paramount, elopements are the way to go. They produce much smaller carbon footprints than weddings, which require lots of single use items for florals, decor, dining and general stationary. As the Green Bride (https://www.amazon.com/Green-Bride-Guide-Earth-Friendly-Wedding/dp/140221345X) puts it: “…the average wedding produces 400 lbs (181kgs) of garbage and 63 tons of CO2. With an estimated 2.5 million weddings per year, that is about 1 billion lbs of trash and as many emissions as approximately 4 people would produce in a year, in just one single day. And those numbers are most likely on the rise when you look at what today’s weddings look like. It’s more important than ever for couples getting married to really think about the footprint of their special day. Especially when there are so many green alternatives out there.” No single use items means a clearer conscience and cleaner environment: a win-win for everybody! #6 No guest list concerns. Some wise old sage once said something along the lines of “when you try to please everyone, you end up pleasing no one.” This is certainly true when deciding who deserves an invite and who doesn’t. The guest list can often be a bone of contention. And there is always a bit of a balancing act between budget concerns and keeping everyone happy. However, the only two people who really matter are you, the bride and the groom. An elopement is a chance to have the day you want and to create the moments that matter to you. If you really want to please everyone, you can still have a party on your return. A lot of couples find that when they tell their friends and family about their plans to elope in Japan, the people who truly matter will often find a way to be there for them to help them celebrate in a way that is important to the bride and groom. Furthermore, a wedding ceremony and celebration in Japan will be a unique bonding experience for those that attend and create warm lifelong memories. An elopement surrounded by closest friends and family tops a wedding surrounded by fair weather folks anytime! #7 Japanese culture One of the words that people use to describe Japanese culture is Omotenashi. It basically translates into hospitality. But it is much more than that. Many visitors to Japan come away talking about the unexpected kindness of the people. This is omotenashi. In the west, hospitality is often given with the expectation of reward. It is a transactional activity: the more you pay, the higher level of hospitality you can expect. However, in Japan, people are brought up with the idea that they need to be kind without expectation of reward. This idea has of course found its way into the Japanese hospitality industry, where people will go above and beyond what is expected or paid for. It’ll make your experience in Japan all the more special and it is one reason why people fall in love with this exotic, mysterious unique country. And we are sure you will too! What about you? What ideas do you think we have left off this list. Are you planning to elope in Japan or have you already done so? What reasons were important for you in making your decisions to come out here. Let us know in the comments below and perhaps we can expand this list in another blog post.

To have an elopement in Nara is to experience something special, as this couple found out. Being the ancient capital of Japan, it is filled with gorgeous historical sites, and exudes an air of rustic elegance throughout the city. While Kyoto often gets all the plaudits as the cultural center of Japan, Nara tends to go under the radar. However, it is no less beautiful. In fact, the locals will argue that it is far more authentically Japanese than any other place in the country. Of course, they may well be biased, but who are we to disagree?! This beautiful couple knew they wanted to elope in Japan, but they just didn’t quite know where. However, as soon as we introduced them to Nara, they were hooked! Nara park is home to hundreds of free-roaming deer (around 1,300 to be more precise) and is surrounded by a number of world heritage sites, and dotted with all manner of uniquely Japanese scenes. This elopement in Nara was held in the stunningly beautiful Yoshikien Garden, which, in our opinion, is one of the most beautiful anywhere in Japan. And, despite being right inside Nara Park, it is slightly off the beaten tourist path and never crowded. Thus, it is a perfect setting for eloping couples. The Garden In one word, it is simply stunning. Climbing the steps into the garden takes you in to another world; it will take your breath away. The gasps of people stepping over the top step are audible from well inside the garden and are testament to its beauty. Don’t take our word for just how beautiful it is; check out these visitor reviews on Trip Advisor: https://www.tripadvisor.com/Attraction_Review-g298198-d3864400-Reviews-Yoshikien-Nara_Nara_Prefecture_Kinki.html The garden has three parts: a pond garden with beautiful villa; tea ceremony garden and a moss garden. Beautifully and lovingly manicured throughout the year, it is the perfect venue for an elopement in Nara. It also boasts picturesque autumn foliage in October/November and an artful use of moss in the spring. We fell in love with it at first sight and so did the couple. The plan called for a ceremony in the Garden followed by a photo-shoot in Nara Park, courtesy of our Nara-based photographer: Kiki Photoworks. (It’s always handy to have a local show you the ropes!) The couple wanted to have a simple garden ceremony, and came to Japan with two of their friends, who wouldn’t have missed this for the world. The tea house offers some seclusion from both the elements and prying eyes: perfect for this couple’s vision, and just what they wanted! The Wedding The weather was unseasonably warm, with clear blue skies and bright sunshine – always a good omen. And, after the cold start to spring, it was a blessing! On the day Ayako and the hair and makeup artist met the couple at their hotel to help prepare for the ceremony. Rather than donning kimonos they opted instead for traditional western attire, looking incredibly chic and beautiful. The friends waited in the tea house for the couple’s arrival who, contrary to western weddings, walked "the aisle" together. It was a beautiful moment; two best friends and lovers, walking each other down the aisle to declare their love and commitment in front of their two closest friends. This is what eloping is all about! The ceremony space was tastefully, yet minimally decorated so as to not distract from the already picturesque environment of the teahouse and garden. Being early spring, the flowers were in bloom and there was a gorgeous green canopy overhead and surrounding the garden. Together with the quietness of the space it was the perfect location; one that we hope to use time and again, in all seasons. The Photos Following a simple, yet beautiful, ceremony the photographer took over, taking them to various vantage points around the garden for some stunning shots. Then, once they had had their fill of the garden, a rickshaw awaited the couple to transport them the traditional way around Nara Park, where they posed for even more beautiful photos. We’ll let the photos speak for themselves: What did the couple say? Their review on TripAdvisor: “We wanted a simple elopement ceremony in Japan, and Serendipity helped us achieved exactly what we dreamed. We had a small ceremony with just 2 guests at a tea house in a garden in Nara. the set up was beautiful and so delicate. The officiant’s words so meaningful and the entire experience delightful. Ross and Ayako took care of everything! and made it extremely easy to communicate despite being in different sides of the planet. They listened to our wants and ideas and gladly accommodated our requests. We met Ayako in person on the day if the ceremony, but were able to reach her or Ross if we needed anything prior to that day. Ayako was even more lovely in person and super helpful to work with. Our only regret was not having more time to spend with Ross and Ayako, they are such great, down to earth people. I would highly recommend this company for elopement wedding needs.” Want something similar for yourselves? Contact us today and let's start planning!

Tokyo is an amazing city. It is hard to believe that it was once a collection of small fishing villages sitting upon a vast marshland. Yet, it has grown into one of the worlds great mega-cities. It's four times larger than London and has a population of nearly 14,000,000. The metropolitan area, which encompasses the commuter belt around the city, is home to over 37,000,000 people! However, despite these dizzying numbers, Tokyo is still the perfect place to elope! More and more couples are discovering this, and so we recently we find ourselves planning Tokyo City Elopements. Why Elope in Tokyo? Tokyo is a place steeped in history yet with both sophisticated AND quirky nods to the future. Regardless of your key words, intimate; romantic; discreet; modern; traditional; chic; quirky etc, Tokyo has everything. It has shrines, temples, skyscrapers, crossings, views, towers, neon lights and of course gardens. It seamlessly links the past with the present and the traditional with the modern. All these reasons, and more, mean that a Tokyo city elopement is the perfect choice for eloping couples. Whether viewed from above or at eye level, Tokyo offers some pretty stunning views! All following photos by Ross Harrison: Your Day; Your Way! Here at Serendipity Flower & Wedding, our guiding philosophy is “Your Day; Your Way”! Sure, there are always some cultural and bureaucratic hurdles to navigate, but it is our job to help you over and around these. In other words, we are here to remove the stress of planning the perfect Tokyo city elopement for you. You might want a ceremony with a nod to the traditional or something much more modern-chic. Or a combination of both! You might want to make a day of it, or simply keep it short, freeing up more time to get the most out of your trip to Tokyo and Japan. Perhaps you want to incorporate a city tour, taking in the sights and and getting to know the city. Or perhaps you'll want a city tour on a completely separate day to the ceremony, like the couple below. How does it work? There are a number of ways to do this, each as different as each couple. You tell us what you want to include and we will recommend places we know, and scout the town for new spots and check the permit requirements. We can plan in intricate detail or - permit permitting (pun intended!) - be spontaneous. Or both. We can hire a private car to ferry you around to each location, or we can use public transport. Or both! We can hire a hair and make up artist to meet us and join us for the day or take you to one of the many local salons at the start of the day. We can incorporate a garden ceremony then do the city tour. We can do the city tour and then a garden ceremony We can go to a kimono studio to include the traditional, or not! At the end of the the day, we can: drop you off at a recommended restaurant to celebrate in style; take you back to your hotel or anything that you want. The choice is yours! Due to COVID, we have not done this yet, but next year we have a few couples who will hire a driver and a photographer for the day, and see the sights of this great city. One couple is even selecting photo-spots that were featured in their favourite anime! We can't wait! Here’s the real kicker - it doesn’t have to be mind bogglingly expensive. As an elopement, it will cost a fraction of a full wedding, and because you don’t need to think about other people, you can focus your budget on the things that really matter to you. Whatever your vision, we want to help. We love this city and everything it has to offer, and we love sharing it with our couples. Get in touch today and let’s start planning!

This fun-loving couple always knew they wanted to have a ceremony in spring. And why not?! It is a stunning time of year, and Japanese views of pink and white cherry blossom are famous worldwide. They wouldn't be the first couple to seek out such settings for their elopement, and certainly won't be the last. However, after initially inquiring about Garden ceremonies, they opted for a Shinto Shrine Elopement. This way they could experience more of Japan on their trip. They would still see the cherry blossom, but it wouldn't be the thing that makes or breaks the big day. They were coming to Japan for a two week trip, taking in the sights of Tokyo and Kyoto, and decided to schedule a ceremony on the Tokyo leg of the trip. Knowing that cherry blossom would be the icing the cake, we offered an additional photo-shoot beneath the pink and white stuff. For this, they wore western attire, and we ventured out into a city park at 7:30am one cold Saturday morning. However, it was so much fun that we soon warmed up! It is rare that we get to spend anytime with our elopement couples before the wedding day, and so it was all the more special to actually meet them for drinks the night before. This enabled us to get know each other and build a rapport that is sometimes difficult through online video conferencing. We had a lot of fun drinking, talking and eating with them on two occasions while they were here, and feel that we have built a genuine friendship. The Wedding Day The weather this spring was cold! However, on the wedding day itself it was, thankfully, warm and sunny! This couple, with a sunny disposition, certainly brought the sunshine with them! Ayako met them at their hotel in Shinjuku at 07:30am ready to get a taxi to the Kimono studio where they selected and changed into them. Unusually for most brides, she picked out her kimono in a matter minutes! For them, the idea of getting married in Spring was heavily influenced by the opportunity to coincide with the cherry blossom. Therefore, once the bride saw the pink cherry blossom motifs on one of the kimonos, the choice was made. She looked stunning! The groom looked no less handsome too! All in all it took just 90 minutes for the bride and groom to get ready, after which the only thing left to do was get to the shrine. They went separately, with the groom arriving first. At the Shrine We started the shinto shrine elopement with "first-meet photos". Unlike western weddings, where the bride walks down the aisle to meet the groom at the altar, there is no such custom here at traditional weddings in Japan. However, this is an essential part of the day, so we asked the shrine to accommodate us with this. And, they were more than happy to do so. The groom arrived first, to await his bride in front of the shrine. The big moment didn't disappoint! Upon seeing each other in full kimonos, the nerves, if there were any, dissipated quickly and they, nay - we all - broke out into huge smiles. Following on from the first meet, there was a 30 minute photo-shoot in the grounds of the shrine. The place is impressive. Although ostensibly a local shrine in a residential area, well away from the tourist hordes in Tokyo, it is as beautiful as any you will find anywhere in Japan. Especially unique, for a local shrine, is the fact that it houses an impressive Noh Theatre stage. This is incredible photogenic and became a focal point for the photographer. After the pre-wedding shoot, we went inside for the rehearsal, which can always be a little daunting. As with all religions there are certain protocols and rituals that couples need to observe. And when coupled with an exotic language it has the potential to be quite intimidating. However, the staff at the shrine are so welcoming, kind and friendly; they put everyone at ease. Ayako was also on hand to translate and explain the order of the ceremony. Needless to say, the rehearsal went smoothly and they were soon set for the real thing. Shinto Shrine Elopement Ceremony Just before the commencement of the ceremony, they were ushered in to a side room to relax with a cup of warm sakura tea. Sometimes things can get a bit hectic on wedding day, and so it is good for everyone, not least the couple, to sit and take in their surroundings. It is a way to savor the moment; to be mindful. The worst thing that can happen on anyone's wedding day is for it to go by in a blur! We are mindful of this, and like to give our couples some time to just take things at their own pace! After some rest-time, the shrine presented them with a certificate, in Japanese, which the couple signed and dated. It is a nice touch and makes things more formal, even if the couple receive their wedding license in their home country. There is no administrative link between wedding ceremonies and marriage applications in Japan. These are done separately and on different days, unlike in western marriage traditions. So, to have a commemorative certificate from the shrine is a classy move - greatly appreciated by the couple. The ceremony always starts with a ritual washing of hands, before proceeding in procession to the shrine itself. After this the priest reports the marriage to the Kami - god - then rings a bell, which brings blessings from God. A central part of the ceremony is the ritual drinking of sake from the same cup - great for sake lovers. Shinto followers believe that drinking sake from the same cup strengthens the bond between the couple. Following the sake drink, it is the couple’s turn to speak. In shinto there is a set oath that the couple must read, in Japanese. This couple had been practicing this for months ahead of time, and it showed. They did great! Next was the ring exchange. This is the same as western weddings, and always brings about great pictures - see for yourself, below! Related Articles: Shinto Shrine Elopement Ceremony After the ceremony Because they were here during the spring, they really wanted to get some cherry blossom! There was a little blossom at the shrine, but not much. So, on a cold Saturday morning, I (Ross) met them at their hotel in Shinjuku. From their, we went to a nearby park for a wedding dress photo-shoot. This rounded off their experience here - they had had a traditional Japanese shrine wedding, and completed it with a dress shoot in a modern city park. Yes, it was early, but the light at that time of morning was beautiful and the pics came out great! We'll let the pictures do the talking!

Shinjuku is one of the main business and entertainment hubs in Tokyo. Because of this, there are a ton of hotels situated here, providing travelers with easy with access to the rest of the city. Naturally, there are no shortage of things to do here. However, with so many things to do in Shinjuku, it can be hard to decide on what to do. That said, with my (almost) local knowledge from 18 years here, here are our top seven things to do in Shinjuku. We hope this short guide will give you an idea of where to start. We'll start at the station! If you don't want to read a long article, all the main points are covered in this short video. Shinjuku Station Shinjuku is the busiest station in the world! Standing still for any length of time in any part of the station, you will witness hordes of people passing by. At rush hour particularly, it will be like a sea of people - no exaggeration! It serves about 3.5 million passengers daily. Putting that into perspective the entire London Underground serves 3.9 million passengers daily. Thinking differently, it is as if the entire population of Uruguay passes through Shinjuku every day! That is a lot of people! And to accommodate that many people, the station has to be huge! It has 200 entrances leading to 20 tracks and 12 train links; the Yamanote Line, Chuo Main Line, Chuo Rapid Line, Chuo-Sobu Line, Shonan-Shinjuku Line, Saikyo Line, Odakyu Odawara Line, Keio Line, Keio New line, Marunouchi Line, Toei Shinjuku and Toei Oedo lines. Now, we could spend the whole video talking about this modern man-made-marvel, but I think that’s best left for an entirely different video. Right now, we want to talk about Shinjuku itself. What can you do or see when you are here? Here are the rest of our top seven things to do in Shinjuku! Tokyo Metropolitan Government Building Arriving in a new city is always a bit bewildering. And it can be very hard to get your bearings, especially a city such as Tokyo. To help get over this, we recommend you head over to the west side of Shinjuku to get an overview of the area from the Metropolitan Government Building. This relatively new building in Sky Scraper district will give a great first impression of the city and help you find your bearings as you prepare for he day(s) ahead. Built in 1995, it is part of a complex consisting of three buildings which house the Tokyo Metropolitan Government . The building we are interested in is a 48 floor skyscraper that splits into two towers from the 33rd floor. On the 45 floor of each tower, imaginatively named North Tower and South Tower, there is a panoramic observation deck. And, unlike most observation points in this city, entrance is free! From these vantage points you will get a sense for how dense the city is, and even pick out some of the other famous locations, such as Tokyo Tower, Tokyo Sky Tree, Roppongi Hills, Meiji Shrine, and of course, weather permitting, Mt. Fuji. The observation decks are open from 09:30 until 23:00. However please note, the North and South towers are open on alternating days. It gets pretty crowded with long lines for the elevator, so we recommend you head out early, maybe skip breakfast. Don’t worry, their is a coffee shop up there so you can grab your morning fix while viewing the city. That said, when I made the above video, I went on a Wednesday afternoon, and there was no waiting around! Naturally, going in the evening will give you some pretty cool views of the city lights, stretching as far as the eye can see. Further Reading: Top Five Things to do in Tokyo Shopping in Shinjuku The east and south east side of the station takes you to the main shopping areas. Here the main attractions will likely be Isetan and Takashimaya, both large luxury department stores with high end brands. They also boast some very nice restaurants and awesome food halls - selling ready packed meals, all manor of drinks, chocolates, patisserie items and general groceries. In addition to Isetan and Takashimaya, you will also find plenty of high-end brand boutiques, electronic stores, specialist shops, beauty parlors, furniture purveyors and of course, cafes and restaurants. So knock yourself out and peruse to your heart’s content! There are several blocks worth of shops and boutiques to get lost down and spend your hard earned cash. For those who like electronic items, there is a recently opened Apple Store across from Isetan and Japanese heavyweight electronics retailers Bic Camera, Soft Map and Yodobashi Camera, the latter is actually near the west exit. Of course, once you have had your fill of shopping, you might want to grab a hearty bite to eat. At this point we recommend you head on over to Piss Alley! Piss Alley Yes, you heard that right, I’m not going got say it again... It used to be an illegal drinking area back in the 1940s that soon became a popular spot for cheap drinks and yakitori during the hard economic times that followed the end of the second world war. Due to the area’s lack of toilet facilities people would go to the nearby train tracks to take a… I mean, to er… relieve themselves, thus earning the place that less than stellar moniker. Don’t worry, it has all changed now! There are perfectly good toilet facilities in the middle of the alley, and the place no longer smells of, er, you know…! Now it is a rather trendy spot for drinking, yakitori and photography. It is a very “instagrammable" spot and you will no doubt have seen a few images floating around on social media at some point. A lot of the bars and restaurants down the alley are very foreign friendly and the food is rather good. So don’t be put off by the name, and be sure give it a visit if/when you are in town to try some of the local fare! By the way, now it is officially called Omoide Yoko-cho, which translates to Memory Lane! A much better name than the alternative! Kabukicho Kabukicho, a stones throw from skyscraper/business district, and a perfect stop after completing your Yakitori in Omoide Yokocho, is an area that has everything: bright lights, noise, pubs, restaurants, love hotels, regular hotels, cafés, pool clubs, entertainment centres, convenience stores, hostess bars, "adult entertainment," cinemas, public baths, pachinko parlours and even a museum! Naturally, like any red-light district, it really comes alive at night! However, there is still plenty to do during the daytime. As well as the aforementioned museum, the Hotel Grocery - with Gozilla peering from above - has a pretty good cafe that serves some rather nice afternoon tea and is open to the general public. The cinemas and game centers are pretty much open around the clock. Take a stroll through the neon lit streets, expose your ears to the cacophony and get your cameras ready; there is plenty to see, do and record even on a “quiet” night in Kabukicho. Unlike red light districts in other parts of the world Kabukicho is surprisingly safe; just be careful of street touts who will try to pull you into a hostess bar or strip club. Needless to say, the costs of which can be pretty extortionate! Golden Gai If the noise and bright lights of Kabukicho get a bit much for you, you can always head over a couple of blocks to Golden Gai. Another Piss All... er… Omoide Yokocho type area, this time covering an entire city block. Here you will find small, nay, tiny drinking holes seating five to eight people at a time. Get a feel for how the Japanese like to drink, up close and personal, albeit likely with a whole bunch of other tourists! The thing about this place is that it gives you a view into the recent past, when huge swathes of Tokyo resembled Golden Gai. The buildings are a mere few feet wide, and built so close to each other they practically touch. Most bars are on street level, though some have a second floor. These floors are accessible only by climbing a very steep flight of steps. Don’t let the ramshackle nature of the place fool you though, Golden Gai is not a cheap place to drink, and the regular clientele can afford to spend a pretty penny or two! After partying hard all night in Kabukicho or Golden Gai, you might want a low energy daytime activity to relax the mind body and spirit. For this, look no further than Shinjuku Gyoen. Shinjuku Gyoen This is a veritable oasis in the heart of the bustling metropolis, and it is a national park with three distinct areas: a traditional Japanese garden, a formal French garden and an English landscape. The latter, with its wide open fields and plentiful cherry blossom trees is a popular picnic area, especially during late March early April when the blossom is in bloom. Most people will stop by Isetan or Takashimaya on their way here, pick up something to eat, and sit on the grass and tuck in. Just remember, no alcohol! No doubt however, as tourists, the main draw will be the Japanese Garden, which is simply stunning! I’ll let the pictures do the talking. Close Hopefully, after reading this post/watching the viefully you won’t feel so overwhelmed when you make your first trip to Shinjuku. If you have already been here, let us know your favorite spots, and perhaps we’ll include them in another video/blog post. Happy Traveling!

This Tokyo City Vow Renewal ceremony was special. Of course, all our vow renewals are special, but this one marked a new chapter in our business. Up until now, we have held all our vow renewals in beautiful Japanese gardens, and couples had opted to wear kimonos for that unique Japanese experience. We love doing those, and will continue to do so, but it was fun to try something new this time. Following hot on the heals of our recent Tokyo City Elopement ceremony, this event also had a unique story. People renew their vows for a whole host of reasons including: celebrating a special anniversary; reconnecting after a rocky patch or honoring a tradition. For this couple it was a birthday and anniversary surprise rolled into one! We love surprises vow renewals, they are the best kind. After having had a small intimate civil ceremony in New York city, three years before, the groom wanted to do something special for his special bride. A trip to Japan and a vow renewal cermeony: it doesn't get more special than that! Evening Ceremony Unlike the garden elopements, which we typically do in the morning, this vow renewal ceremony was held in the evening. The groom decided on an evening ceremony in the hopes of getting the lights of the city across the bay. This is always nerve wracking, because we simply can’t control the weather! But we couldn’t have been luckier. After a lot of cloudy days, it finally cleared up to present this lucky couple with clear blue skies. This made conditions perfect for a “golden hour” ceremony. As the daylight turned to night the lights of Tokyo city and Rainbow Bridge came on. This transformed an already awesome view into one of romance and magic! It was like a fairy tale! This Tokyo city vow renewal was truly magical: neither the couple the photographer nor I could keep our eyes off the skyline for very long, but long enough for some cool pics, courtesy of Simon Bonny. Following the photoshoot, the couple wrapped up their magical evening with a special tempura meal in the Odaiba Hilton overlooking Tokyo Bay. Wishing the happy couple continued happiness and hope to see them again on their next trip out to Tokyo – the dogs and we miss you! Pictures What did the couple say? Quote taken from TripAdvisor: “My husband surprised me with a trip to Japan for my birthday (which is the day after my anniversary). On our anniversary, he had a second surprise – a vow renewal by Tokyo’s Rainbow Bridge with Serendipity! Ross and Ayako are two very special people, and they made our day truly unforgettable. They took care of every detail – even making our dinner reservations for us – and put us at ease from the moment we met them. Ross and Ayako did an amazing job communicating and coordinating with my husband before our trip so that the surprise was pulled off effortlessly. The best part of all is that we now have two friends in Tokyo :)” Feeling inspired? Contact us today and let's start talking!

Visiting a city like Tokyo for the first time can be daunting. There is so much to do, see and experience. And these days with people planning their trips around what they see on instagram, it can be hard to reconcile all those ideas into a cohesive travel experience. So, as a resident of Tokyo for the past 18 years, here are my five things to do in Tokyo on your very first day. This is a mini-tour I personally went on when I was in Japan for a week back in 2001. It gave me a great overview of the city, one that I have never forgotten. And, when I moved here permanently in 2003 I did it again to help get me oriented and settled. From personal experience, I can highly recommend this to anyone who is over here on a flying visit or even anything longer. In fact, I still take visitors on a similar tour whenever I am lucky enough to host friends and family from home. Purpose of this mini-tour Get an overview of the city, literally, by bookending the day with aerial views from high vantage points. Experience both the modern and the traditional in equal measure, and with a bit of luck, see Mount Fuji! NB: Feel free to access and save our Google My Maps of this tour for your visit to Japan: https://www.google.com/maps/d/viewer?mid=1l05U8Zl-L9OlEySHEVhbTaLSxyXBiLTl&ll=35.71600228456001%2C139.81030365544336&z=12 First - Tokyo Metropolitan Government Building, Shinjuku This relatively new building in Sky Scraper district will give a great first impression the city and help you find your bearings as you prepare for he day(s) ahead. Built in 1995, the whole complex consists of three buildings which house the Tokyo Metropolitan Government which is responsible for all 23 wards (districts) of Tokyo. The building we are interested in is the tallest of the three, a 48 floor skyscraper that splits into two towers from the 33rd floor. On the 45 floor of each tower, named North Tower and South Tower, there is a panoramic observation deck that is free of charge to the public with gift shops and cafes. From the observation deck you will get a sense for how dense the city is, and even pick out some of the other famous locations, such as Tokyo Tower, Tokyo Sky Tree, Roppongi Hills, Meiji Shrine, and of course, weather permitting, Mt. Fuji. They are open from 09:30 until 23:00, however please note, North and South towers of the Metropolitan Government Building are open on alternating days. Second - Meiji Shrine, Harajuku If this is your first day in Japan, this will be your first truly Japanese experience. Get in touch with old Japan by visiting the emperor's shrine, Meiji Jingu. It is located just three stops from Shinjuku on the Yamanote Line. After walking through the gigantic tori gate you will soon forget that you are in the heart of one of the biggest metropolises in the world. The walk along the path through the man-made forest is supposed to cleanse and prepare the mind to be in inner sanctum of the shrine. Despite its appearances, it is merely 100 years old. Next to Harajuku station, it is an incredibly beautiful example of Shinto Architecture and was dedicated to the deified spirits of Emperor Meiji and his wife Shouken. Following the emperor's death in 1912 the government of the time wanted to do something to honor his role in the Meiji restoration, which saw the end of the shogunate and a full restoration of political power to the emperor of Japan. The shrine sits in the heart of a large evergreen forest complex that covers an area of 70 hectares. The trees of the forest, some 120,000, were donated by people from all over Japan when the shrine was constructed. This perhaps indicates the high regard that the people of the time held for Emperor Meiji and his wife. Once you enter Torii gates and make your way through the forest you will start to see why even today, many Japanese like to come here for a bit of respite from the modern world. Third - Omotesando, Oriental Bazaar After you come out of Meiji Shrine (the same way you went in), you will be almost rudely awakened by the throngs of people going about their daily business. Walk through the crowds, an experience in itself, along Omotesando Avenue towards the oriental Bazaar. The mission of Oriental Bazaar is to "introduce Japanese culture to the world,” and they do a great job. It is very popular with tourists, and a few locals, for good reason: the goods are of high quality, yet at a very reasonable (some might even say cheap) price, making Japanese culture more accessible than it otherwise might be. The shop sits on three floors, two above ground and one below, and they sell, among other things, the following: Basement - Kimonos, Yukitas, T-shirts, Fancy Goods, chinaware, books 1st Floor - Japanese porcelain, washi paper, fabric bags and teddy bears, Japanese prints of the ukiyo-e style 2nd Floor - antiques, furniture, antique kimonos, screens, ornaments, vases, lamps Get your souvenirs on the first day otherwise you may never get a chance! Alternatively, if you are organized, take stock of where it is for a later visit. Just note, it is closed on Thursdays - you have been warned! When you come out of the Oriental Bazaar, continue up Omotesando in the same direction. You are looking for the Ginza subway line, to take you across town to the next stop of this tour. Editor's note: the operation of the shop has been scaled back somewhat in response to COVID. Please check the website before venturing out. Fourth - Sensou-ji, Asakusa This beautiful temple shows yet another side to Japan, quite different from anything else you will have seen this day. While the Mieji Shrine pays homage to shinto, this temple pays homage to buddhism; the religion of Asia in general. Sensou-ji is the oldest temple in Japan, making it one of the most significant. Legend has it that a statue of the Kannon was found in the Sumida River by two fishermen. They then took the statue to the village chief who, upon recognizing its significance, converted his house to a temple, so the villagers could worship the Kannon. The first true temple was built on these grounds soon after, in 645; making this the oldest temple in Japan. Perhaps the most iconic part for he temple is the huge paper lantern that hangs from Kaminarimon - "thunder gate". This also represents a great photo-opportunity and is pretty much crowded all day! Once you get through the gates you enter Nakamise-dori, a 250m long shop lined street, with 89 separate boutiques leading up to the temple. Here you will find all manner of goods, from the sublime to the ridiculous. Fifth - Tokyo Sky Tree This was not part of the original tour I went on in 2001. (Simply because it wasn’t built until 2012!) However, given its location in relation to Sensou-ji, it would make a great ending to the day. Plus, if the whether and timing is right, you might just see a stunning sunset over this great city. The sun sets behind the mountain range that includes Mt. Fuji, perfectly silhouetting the conical marvel against the bright setting sun. Then, after sunset, stay just a little longer to witness the twinkling lights of the city, which is equally mesmerizing. This is the only sight today that requires an entrance fee. However, you can get your tickets in advance, and skip to the front of the line on arrival. 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