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Experiences & Settings for Every Couple Eloping in Japan isn’t just about finding a venue, it’s about finding the setting that feels like yours. From hidden gardens where autumn leaves turn the air to gold, to historic townhouses steeped in tradition, to private villas in the city, Japan offers backdrops as varied as its seasons. At Serendipity, we don’t overwhelm couples with endless options. Instead, we curate intimate, culturally rich spaces that perfectly compliment your love story.  Needless to say, these are places you won’t find in wedding directories or mass-market lists. Whether you’re drawn to nature, tradition, or modern elegance, here are five distinct experiences that capture the essence of Japan, and could well be the perfect setting for your vows. Where to Elope in Japan A dreamy secret mountain garden in spring. 1. A Secret Mountain Garden Hidden in the hills, far from the tourist crowds at Japan’s most visited sites, lies a garden that waited centuries to be discovered. Towering trees frame moss-covered stone lanterns, pathways wind past trickling streams, and seasonal flowers mark the passage of time: delicate cherry blossoms in spring, fiery red maples in autumn, camellias in winter. Unlike public parks, this garden is not overrun with tour groups or cameras. It is a place of quiet and reflection, where couples can speak their vows with only the breeze and birdsong as witnesses. Many describe it as a “world within a world.” We like to call it a slice of heaven.  Either way, it is a setting where time seems to stand still. Seasonal highlights: Spring: cherry blossoms. Early Summer: deep green foliage and cooling shade. Autumn: golden and crimson maples, one of Japan’s most romantic backdrops. Winter: a hushed stillness, a possibility of snow. Why couples love it:  intimacy, privacy, and the feeling of stepping into a hidden world known only to a few. A private Japanese villa is like a window into another time. 2. A Private Villa For couples who want intimacy without leaving the city, a private villa is the perfect solution. These spaces combine architectural beauty with complete privacy, thus giving you the best of both worlds. In Kyoto, think of a traditional machiya townhouse with paper screens, tatami mats, and garden complete with koi pond, designed for quiet reflection.  In Tokyo, imagine the same sense of seclusion, yet just a stone’s throw away from the vibrant energy of Japan’s capital. Perfect for couples who want tradition by day and city lights by night Because villas are exclusive-use spaces, couples never have to worry about interruptions or distractions. The day belongs entirely to you, whether you envision a simple exchange of vows followed by sake in the garden, or a candlelit dinner with your favorite music playing softly in the background. Considerations: Kyoto villas suit couples who want history and tradition woven into their day. Tokyo villas are ideal for those who want to incorporate cosmopolitan energy into their day. Some  villas also offer overnight stays, turning your elopement into a full private retreat. Why couples love it:  elegant seclusion, modern amenities, and a warm, homelike setting in the heart of Japan’s most iconic cities. Zen Temple, Beautiful Garden and Koi Pond. 3. Zen Temple & Secret Garden There is a profound sense of peace in a Zen temple. The moment you step inside, the world outside fades to be replaced by the scent of incense, the sound of rustling robes, and the soft creak of wooden floors polished by centuries of footsteps. Many temples are not open to the general public for weddings; they only welcome ceremonies when approached with care and respect. Through trusted relationships, it is sometimes possible to arrange a symbolic blessing or to hold a quiet exchange of vows in a private hall or adjoining garden. The gardens themselves are works of art—designed for meditation and contemplation. Raked gravel patterns represent flowing water, koi glide lazily through ponds, and sculpted maples provide shade in summer and brilliant color in autumn. Every element is intentional, and that sense of mindfulness permeates the ceremony itself. Atmosphere: Serenity and simplicity, ideal for couples seeking reflection and spiritual grounding. Deep cultural significance, offering a glimpse into centuries-old traditions. A perfect setting for minimalist ceremonies where emotion and meaning take center stage. Why couples love it:  timeless spirituality, cultural depth, and the beauty of stepping into Japan’s living traditions. Don a kimono and do it the Japanese way: at a beautiful shinto shrine. 4. A Shinto Shrine Ceremony For couples who want to embrace authentic Japanese tradition, a Shinto shrine ceremony is unforgettable. The ritual is rich with symbolism: purification by water, the rhythmic beat of taiko drums, the solemn blessing of a priest, and the sharing of sake to seal the union. Unlike Western ceremonies, Shinto weddings emphasize harmony, continuity, and spiritual connection. The couple is joined not only to each other, but also to the natural world and to the kami—spirits believed to inhabit all things. Access to shrine ceremonies is highly restricted. They are sacred spaces, not event venues, and only certain shrines are open to international couples through trusted introductions. For those fortunate enough to be welcomed, the experience is both deeply moving and culturally immersive. Why couples love it: The honor of participating in a sacred, centuries-old ritual. Spiritual blessings that carry deep meaning. The chance to wear traditional attire—silk kimonos, hakama, or montsuki—within an authentically Japanese setting. If conditions are right, magic can happen! 5. The Majesty of Mount Fuji Few landscapes in the world are as instantly recognizable—or as breathtaking—as Mount Fuji. Rising gracefully from the plains, capped with snow for much of the year, Fuji embodies strength, serenity, and beauty. For couples, it offers a setting that feels elemental—marrying in the presence of a mountain that has inspired poets, artists, and pilgrims for centuries. Ceremonies near Fuji can take many forms. Some couples prefer a lakeside setting, with the mountain mirrored in the still water. Others choose a private villa or garden with framed views of the peak. The key is privacy: while thousands of tourists flock to Fuji daily, finding a secluded, intimate place requires insider knowledge and trusted venues. Best times of year: Spring: cherry blossoms and a snow-capped peak. Summer: lush greenery, with climbing season in full swing. Autumn: crisp air and fiery foliage at the base of the mountain. Winter: clear skies offering Fuji at its most dramatic. Why couples love it:  dramatic natural beauty, iconic symbolism, and photographs that capture Japan’s most timeless image. For a more complete write up about Eloping in Mount Fuji, click here. Curated Experiences, Just for You When you choose to elope in Japan, you’re not just selecting a “venue.” You’re stepping into an experience—crafted with care, respect, and intimacy. At Serendipity, we believe in quality over quantity. That’s why we work with a carefully chosen collection of spaces—secret gardens, private villas, temples, shrines, and landscapes—where we know your day will unfold with ease and meaning. Our venues aren’t found on mass-market wedding lists. They are places that trust us to bring respectful couples into their spaces, and in return, they open doors that remain closed to the wider world. Your love story deserves more than a backdrop. It deserves a setting that feels like it was waiting for you all along.

A Seasonal Guide At the time of writing, have just embarked on our busiest season here at Elope in Japan : autumn. It’s easily our favourite time of year. The heavy heat and humidity of summer have finally given way to cooler, more pleasant days, and the scenery is transforming from vibrant greens to soft yellows, rich oranges, and, by late November, deep reds. For photographers, it’s a dream season — filled with golden light, gentle air, and wonderful opportunities to create those beautifully soft, warm seasonal images couples love. The Japanese are justifiably proud of their four seasons; a concept woven deeply into the nation’s culture, cuisine, and conversation. Yet, as I (Ross) often say, there are really six seasons: spring, rainy season, summer, typhoon season, autumn, and winter. And certain text will list seventy-two micro-seasons , each lasting just five days! However you count them, Japan offers something remarkable at every turn of the year: truly something for everyone. Which season you choose for your elopement depends largely on personal preference — whether you’re drawn to the fleeting beauty of cherry blossoms, the vibrant greens of early summer, or the fiery momiji leaves of autumn. So, when couples ask us about the best time to elope in Japan, our honest answer is: each to their own! Every month has its own unique charm — and its own challenges. From the gentle pastels of spring to the quiet hush of winter shrines, Japan provides breathtaking backdrops all year round. Below is a scannable breakdown of the seasons, month by month, highlighting not just the magic of each period, but also the practical pros and cons you’ll want to know before planning your elopement. Spring: Cherry Blossoms and Fresh Beginnings March–April Few things are more iconically Japanese than cherry blossoms ( sakura ). Streets, gardens, and temple grounds burst into soft pink, creating memories couples cherish forever. The season symbolizes renewal and beauty, making it one of the most popular times to marry in Japan. PROS CONS Romantic cherry blossom backdrops Extremely busy - venues book years in advance Mild weather, great for outdoor photos Blossoms are short-lived and weather-dependent and increasingly difficult to predict. Symbolism of renewal and new beginnings Popular sites crowded with tourists and locals Photo Date: 9th April - in the mountains near Kyoto. Our Tip: If you are considering cherry blossom, prediciting the blooms is becoming increasingly difficult, so we recommend couples choose venues that will be beautiful regardless of the blooms. It is also a good idea to ask yourself how risk averse you are - how disappointed will you be if they are too early or too late. May (Golden Week & Beyond) The first week of May is Golden Week, a collection of national holidays when many people travel, making it one of the busiest times of year. While the weather is beautiful, venues and hotels are packed and prices jump. After Golden Week, however, it is glorious: warm, lush, and far less crowded. May is indeed one of the loveliest times to marry. PROS CONS Warm and pleasant climate 🚫 Golden Week (early May) is crowded & costly Lush greenery and early summer flowers High demand for venues throughout the month Longer daylight hours Summer: Green Mountains and Coastal Breezes June–July Early summer in Japan begins with 梅雨 - tsuyu (rainy season). However, don’t let that deter you, as gentle rain brings fresh greenery and blooming hydrangeas, making gardens and temples come alive. By mid-July, humidity rises, and cities like Tokyo and Kyoto can feel quite warm. Photo Date: 5th June, Kyoto Our Tip : If you are worried about the chance of rain, choose a venue with ample rain cover. PROS CONS Vibrant greenery and soft, diffused light Frequent rain showers (especially June) 🌧 Hydrangea season, beautiful in temple gardens Rising heat and humidity in July Lower tourist numbers compared to spring/autumn Unpredictable weather can complicate photo plans August (Not Available) August is Japan’s hottest and most humid month, with temperatures, recently, topping 40°C (104°F) with 80% + humidity. Combined with peak tourist crowds and high accommodation costs, it is not an ideal month for weddings. At Serendipity Flower & Wedding , we also take health and safety very seriously. Due to the extreme heat and potential negative implications for couples, guests, vendors and ourselves, we do not accept inquiries for August elopements. September September marks the slow shift from summer into autumn. The temperatures begin to cool — though early in the month it can still feel warm and humid, especially in southern and central Japan. While typhoons occasionally pass through, the second half of September often rewards couples with beautiful clear skies and quieter venues. PROS CONS Gradually cooler and more comfortable weather Occasional typhoons and heavy rain early in the month Lush greenery with hints of autumn tones Warm, lingering humidity in some regions Fewer crowds after summer holidays Photo Date: 2nd September, Tokyo Our tip: If you’re considering September, aim for the latter half of the month: it’s a wonderful transitional period that can deliver both summer vibrancy and the first whispers of autumn. Autumn: Momiji and Clear Skies October October signals the start of cooler air and comfortable days. The leaves are still predominantly green, but with a hint of change starting the subtle transition from summer’s greens to soft golds and oranges, which will truly take place from mid-November onwards. PROS CONS Comfortable temperatures Autumn colors not fully developed yet (except in early mountain regions) Clear, stable weather Lower crowds compared to peak autumn Photo-Date: 10th October, Tokyo November By mid-November, Japan’s maples and ginkgo trees blaze with color. Known as momiji , this season rivals cherry blossoms in beauty. Many couples consider November the best season to elope in Japan . PROS CONS Stunning autumn foliage at temples and gardens High demand — venues and photographers book out quickly Costs slightly higher in peak weeks Mild, pleasant weather Exceptional photography conditions Photo Date: 29th November, Kyoto December (early) The first half of December can still offer late autumn leaves and quieter venues. By mid-December, though, shrines and temples begin New Year preparations and stop hosting weddings. PROS CONS Chance to catch the tail end of autumn colors Limited venue availability from mid-December onward Smaller crowds after November rush Temperatures starting to drop Photo Date: 4th December, in the Mountains near Kyoto Winter: Snowy Shrines and Quiet Romance January Late December through early January is New Year, Japan’s most important holiday. It is as important to the Japanese as Christmas is in the west. Becasue of this, shrines will not host weddings, and during the New Year break - from around the 29th December to the 3rd of January - many secular venues are closed. From mid-January onward, winter weddings become possible again. PROS CONS Serene, snow-dusted shrines in certain regions 🚫 Shrines closed over New Year period Far fewer tourists and quieter venues Cold temperatures, especially in northern regions Snowy backdrops in Nagano, Hokkaido, or the Japanese Alps February Still cold, but tranquil. Powder snow makes northern Japan a magical setting. PROS CONS Ski towns and mountains offer unique photo settings Cold temperatures (especially outdoors) Clear, crisp winter light Possible travel disruptions in heavy snow regions Intimate atmosphere, very few crowds Photo Date: 14th February 2023, Tokyo So, Which Is the Best Season to Elope in Japan? As stated in the opening section of this post, the answer depends on your priorities: 🌸 March–April: Iconic cherry blossoms, but crowded and competitive 🌿 May–June: Greenery and mild weather, but avoid Golden Week 🏞 July–August: Challenging in cities, better in mountains/coast (we don't work in August) 💨 September : Still hot and humid with chance of typhoons 🍁 October–November: Comfortable weather, brilliant autumn foliage ❄️ December–February: Quiet shrines and snowy romance, off-peak charm If you’re looking for the perfect balance of beauty, comfort, and atmosphere, most couples find spring (late March through to the end of May) or autumn (October through to early December) the best time to elope in Japan. But for privacy seekers, winter has its own magic. Final Thoughts Whichever month you choose, your elopement will be enriched by the landscapes, traditions, and rhythms of the year. By weighing the pros and cons of each season, you can find the moment that best reflects who you are as a couple. Ready to discover your best season? Contact us at Elope in Japan and we’ll help you craft your perfect elopement, whatever the month.

A Timeless Ritual for Your Elopement Day Feel free to skip to the scannable FAQs here . A Pause in the Rush of the Day On your wedding day, moments often pass in a blur. After the long wait and anticipation, the ceremony, the joy, and even the photo shoot can all feel like they happen too quickly. A common regret couples share is that they never truly paused to take it all in. From the rush of hair and makeup, to getting to the church, to powering through group photos and heading straight to the reception — the day can become a whirlwind. That’s why so many of the couples we speak with — those who choose to elope in Japan — are drawn to the cha-no-yu (茶の湯), or Japanese tea ceremony. The tea ceremony is more than a cultural ritual; it’s an intentional pause. It creates a chance to be fully present with each other, to reflect on the promises you’ve just made, and to experience something profoundly Japanese, together. The very act of participating in the ritual encourages you to slow down, be mindful, and savor one another’s company. It also ties perfectly into our mission at Elope in Japan : to share unique Japanese cultural experiences with our couples. From tea ceremonies and kimono , to rituals such as san-san-ku-do and the red string of destiny , we love weaving moments of authentic tradition into each elopement day. A Brief History of the Tea Ceremony In contemporary Japan, the tea ceremony is no longer an everyday custom for most people. Instead, it exists as a cultural practice that attempts to connect  modern life with tradition. The tea ceremony as we know it today has its roots in Zen Buddhism. Powdered green tea, otherwise known as matcha, was introduced to Japan from China during the late Heian period (794–1185) and gained popularity among monks as a way of  staying alert during meditation. By the 16th century, the ritual of preparing and serving tea had evolved into an art form under the guidance of Sen no Rikyū , who is often credited as the father of the modern tea ceremony. His philosophy emphasized simplicity, humility, and the idea of finding beauty in imperfection: a concept known as wabi-sabi . From this foundation emerged the “Four Principles of Tea”: Harmony  (wa) – with nature, with others, and with the environment. Respect  (kei) – for the host, the guest, and the tools used. Purity  (sei) – both physical cleanliness and spiritual clarity. Tranquility  (jaku) – the calmness that follows when the first three are practiced. Though centuries have passed, these values remain central to the practice today. The Japanese Tea Ceremony in Modern Japan In contemporary Japan, the tea ceremony is no longer an everyday custom for most people. Instead, it exists as a cultural practice that attempts to connect  modern life with tradition. Cultural Preservation : Many Japanese people today continue to study the tea ceremony, enrolling in tea ceremony clubs to study, practice and perform  the ritualized ceremony. A Mindful Escape : In the busyness of modern Tokyo or Kyoto, stepping into a tea house feels like stepping into another world: quiet, simple, timeless. Hospitality for Guests : Today, tea ceremonies are often shared with visitors as a way of offering insight into Japanese aesthetics, mindfulness, and culture. For couples eloping in Japan, this makes the tea ceremony both accessible and meaningful, thus bridging the gap between the past and the present. Why Couples Choose the Tea Ceremony for Their Elopement The tea ceremony invites you to slow down, breathe, and simply be present, in the moment. 1. A Symbol of Harmony and Respect At its heart, the tea ceremony is about creating harmony and demonstrating respect. What better way to begin a marriage than by practicing these values together? Sharing tea becomes your first act as a married couple, a ritual that symbolizes your intention to build a life of balance and consideration. 2. A Moment to Slow Down Elopements are often chosen for their intimacy and freedom from rigid schedules. Still, even with fewer moving parts, the day can pass quickly. The tea ceremony invites you to slow down, breathe, and simply be with one another. It creates space for reflection in the midst of joy. 3. A Deep Cultural Connection Many couples coming to Japan for their elopement tell us that they want more than just a beautiful backdrop. They want a meaningful cultural experience. Participating in a tea ceremony offers exactly that: not a performance, but an act of hospitality that has been practiced for centuries. 4. An Intimate and Photogenic Experience Whether held in a private tea house, a temple garden, or even inside a traditional townhouse, the tea ceremony is naturally intimate. It’s just the two of you, the tea master, and the quiet rhythm of the ritual. Photographers often capture these moments beautifully, though many couples might also choose to put the cameras down and savor the experience privately. 5. Adaptable to Your Day The tea ceremony can serve different roles within your elopement: A symbolic part of the marriage ceremony itself A pause during the photo-shoot Or as a closing ritual to bring the day to a gentle, reflective end The Experience: What to Expect A traditional tea ceremony can last anywhere from 30 minutes to several hours, depending on the style. For our elopements, we organize a shorter, more accessible version that lasts around 10 ~ 20 minutes. 1. The Setting: A tatami-floored tea room or garden pavilion, often with carefully chosen seasonal flowers and a hanging scroll to set the tone. 2. The Host: A tea master will guide the ritual, often explaining elements in English for international guests - sometimes the whole thing takes place in complete silence, or with the sound of the koto . 3. The Ritual: Guests cleanse their hands, bow, and enter the room. The host prepares matcha with deliberate, graceful movements. Each sip is taken with mindfulness and gratitude. 4. The Atmosphere: Silence, soft spoken words, and an almost meditative calm. It is not just about the tea. It is about the life you are beginning together, and the way you choose to honor it. The Meaning Behind the Movements Every action in the tea ceremony, from folding the cloth to cleansing the utensil; to the way the matcha is whisked; even to the presentation of the bowl, is carefully choreographed. These gestures are not simply ritual for ritual’s sake. They embody centuries of refinement, symbolizing respect for the guest, and gratitude for the tools and ingredients used. They are a reminder to the participants to be mindful; to be in the present. It's a form of meditation, in accordance with its Zen roots. For couples, watching and participating in this choreography becomes part of the experience. In the context of a wedding, the precision and intentionality remind you that love is also built on small, mindful acts repeated day after day . Just as the tea master finds beauty in each careful movement, marriage finds strength and beauty in the way partners honor each other through daily kindness and attention. How to Participate in a Tea Ceremony: Simple Etiquette If you’ve never taken part in a Japanese tea ceremony before, don’t worry. Most couples haven’t, and your host or tea master will guide you through each step. The beauty of the experience is in being present — not in doing everything perfectly. Still, here are a few simple customs that will help you feel at ease: Entering the Space You’ll usually remove your shoes and bow lightly at the entrance. Sometimes, you may also be asked to rinse your hands as a gesture of purity. Receiving the Tea Bowl ( Chawan ) The tea ceremony master will present the bowl (chawan) to you with the pattern facing towards you. Bow, before receiving the bowl, then: Accept the bowl with both hands, as a sign of respect. Before drinking, gently turn the bowl clockwise, two or three times, so the decorative pattern faces away from you and does not touch yourlips. Still holding the bowl in both hands, sip slowly, taking time to enjoy the moment. When you’re done, admire the bowl briefly before handing it back with a smile and a bow. Enjoying the Sweets Often, a small sweet ( wagashi ) is served before the matcha. It balances the tea’s natural bitterness, and it’s perfectly fine to simply enjoy it as part of the ritual. Relax and Be Present The most important “rule” is to move calmly and be mindful. Your tea master will quietly guide you if you’re unsure of what to do. **Importantly, don’t worry about making mistakes. The tea ceremony isn’t about getting everything “right” — it’s about slowing down, being present, and sharing the experience together. A Living Symbol for Your Marriage There’s a reason the tea ceremony has endured for centuries: it offers a moment of pause, reflection, and connection. For couples choosing to elope in Japan, it can transform a beautiful day into something unforgettable - a ritual that embodies mindfulness, respect, and harmony: three central pillars of both Zen philosophy and a lasting marriage. The tea ceremony is an intentional pause. A chance to be fully present with each other, to reflect on the promises you’ve just made, and to experience something profoundly Japanese, together. Whether you’re in a quiet Kyoto tea house, a Zen temple garden, or a private Tokyo villa, the tea ceremony creates a memory that lingers long after the last sip of matcha. Because in the end, it is not just about the tea. It is about the life you are beginning together, and the way you choose to honor it. If you’d like to include this living symbol of harmony and respect in your elopement, we would be honored to guide you. Tea Ceremony FAQs Do we need to wear kimono for the tea ceremony? Not at all. Many couples choose kimono to immerse themselves fully in the experience, but western wedding attire is equally welcome. The heart of the tea ceremony is respect and mindfulness, not what you wear. How long does a tea ceremony last? A traditional tea ceremony can last several hours, but these days, they tend to be a lot shorter. The ceremonies we arrange max out at around 20 minutes. Can our photographer capture the tea ceremony? Absolutely, yes! Is it difficult to participate if we don’t know the etiquette? Not at all. Your host will guide you through the steps, and perfection isn’t expected. The most important thing is to be present, calm, and appreciative. Where can we have a tea ceremony during our elopement? Tea houses can be found in Kyoto’s gardens, Tokyo cultural centers, temples in Nara, and even private villas. We help couples choose a setting that fits their vision. Do we need to speak Japanese to enjoy the tea ceremony? No. Many tea masters who work with international guests provide explanations in English, and we’re always there to help guide you. What does the tea taste like? The matcha served is rich, slightly bitter, and earthy. It’s often paired with a sweet ( wagashi ) that balances the flavor beautifully. Why do you recommend including a tea ceremony in an elopement? At Elope in Japan , our mission is to share authentic Japanese cultural experiences with our couples. The tea ceremony embodies harmony, respect, and mindfulness — values that beautifully mirror the start of married life. For many couples, it becomes more than just an “add-on” to the day: it’s a deeply meaningful ritual, and a memory that lasts long after the last sip of matcha. If this sounds like something you want to do, feel free to reach out and let's start talking about how to include this traditional ritual into your special day.

Important Note before you continue: As you read on, you’ll see why this day stands out as one of the most unforgettable celebrations we’ve ever had the honor to create. It was January 2019: a very different time for the wedding industry not just in Japan but around the world. Not long after this, as you will well no doubt remember, the world changed! And with it, so did the way couples choose to celebrate. The pandemic shifted the focus toward smaller, more intentional gatherings, and we gradually found ourselves specializing in elopements with any thing from zero to 20 guests. Over time, these intimate celebrations became the heart of our work, and today our calendar is dedicated to these events year-round. Destination Wedding Hakuba You know when you fall in love with a place so much that you have to return again and again; a place that feels like a home from home? That is how this couple feel with Hakuba. They had been snowboarding there several times in the past, and knew that they had to get married there. And why not?! Hakuba is an absolutely stunning place in winter, with snow-capped mountains and snow-covered trees; powder snow and the white covered roads and narrow lanes. It is incredibly romantic; it is a veritable paradise: quiet, slow, and picturesque. It is such a popular place for Australians and New Zealanders, as well as people from further a field, that during the winter months, the population of this small town almost quadruples! This year was no different. And it proved the perfect setting for our couple from Australia, Natasha and Jonas. And it is quite a story! Destination Wedding in Hakuba: The Beginning They had actually started planning directly with venue before they found us, but they were experiencing two problems: language and guest capacity! Neither of them speak much Japanese, and so some things were getting lost in translation. As for the other problem, practically every invite they sent out was returned with a “yes, definitely”! 115 people were committed to making the long trip from Australia to Hakuba to be at their wedding! What a wonderful testament to this couple! Unfortunately however, the original venue had a capacity of no larger than 60! The wedding was going to be bigger than either of them had envisaged. This is when they contacted us. We contacted the first venue on their behalf and it quickly became apparent that the couple’s guest list had outgrown it. There was simply no way for the venue to host the numbers expected. And so the search was on for a new one. We had never been to Hakuba before and so were eager to explore a new place and build new relationships. So we gladly hopped on a train and made the long trip to this winter wonderland. It is a place that Ayako and I quickly came to love. The Venue The venue we settled on was Sierra Resort , a gorgeous resort hotel set in the side of a mountain, surrounded by picturesque forests and with stunning views of the peaks. It has a lovely homey feel, which Ayako and I instantly fell in love with. The hotel was full-to-brimming with warm hospitality: free hot snacks and drinks, including sake for guests; hot springs; a guest lounge and even an igloo in the garden, in which you could enjoy yet more hot snacks and beverages. On top of all that, they have their own chapel and reception room capable of supporting the numbers we needed! Another exciting discovery with Sierra Resort is that the Chef is something of a local celebrity. He has won numerous awards and accolades from his industry peers. So we knew the food was going to be great - obviously we sampled it - never turn down an opportunity to eat great food! As my uncle often says - eat when you can, you can never reliably know when you can eat next! Anyway. I digress.... back to the story! We passed all this information on to the couple together with photos and videos. It was an easy choice to make! The couple was excited, the staff were excited, and we were excited! Fast forward a year to January 2019… The weather Weather always plays a major role in a couples' wedding story, and it was no different here. In the weeks leading up to the wedding we were aware that there had been no snowfall in Hakuba yet. It usually starts snowing in early to mid December, but by mid January it still hadn’t arrived… While the wedding would still have gone ahead without snow, we really needed it to complete the winter-wedding-feel we had all envisaged. Furthermore, the guests needed the snow so they could all enjoy snowboarding or skiing on the days either side of the wedding! The ski resorts and hotels in Hakuba were all sweating on this… their businesses can only survive as long as there is snow! Luckily, the weather gods were smiling on us, for on the very morning of our arrival in Hakuba, just two days before the wedding, the snow came. After leaving Tokyo at 5:30 am, we arrive at 9:45am in Hakuba, just as the snow started falling. Pretty much as soon as we got off the motorway (highway) it started snowing. And as we got closer to Hakuba, the heavier and deeper the it got. It was beautiful – we were all like kids again! None of us had never seen such fluffy, powdery, dry snow before. Even our dogs loved it! (Yes, we didn’t leave them at home or in a hotel by themselves. They accompanied us for this trip!) And it didn’t stop snowing! It continued to snow right up to ceremony time, two days later, by which time it was over three feet deep in places. In fact, it was so deep that it took a good hour to dig the car out of the snow on wedding day! The Wedding The chapel itself is beautiful, and didn’t need much in the way of decor. There was a large window behind the altar, from which the beautiful snow scenery could be viewed, perfect for the winter, snow wedding the couple envisaged. Inside the chapel, the bride wanted a candle-lit aisle. We scattered rose petals along the runway and lined it with real and LED candles to create a pleasing warm feeling in the otherwise cold setting. It looked perfect! The bride, was the most relaxed bride we have ever worked with. She was a breeze to work with, because nothing seemed to stress her out. Which is good! The only people allowed to stress on wedding day are the planners. She just savoured every minute of the day, as should all brides! The groom admitted to nerves, making several pre-ceremony trips to the john’s but otherwise he too, once the ceremony had started, was a cool cucumber! The bride wore a white wedding dress, accompanied by her bridesmaids, all sporting pink, adding a splash of color to the white winter landscape. The groom and groomsmen wore matching blue/grey blazers, all tailor-made by a friend of the groom. Another friend also gifted the groomsmen with cool ninja stars for their lapels - a nod to their chosen theme! Theme There was nothing inherently Japanese about the wedding, other than the fact that it was in Japan. However, there was a subtle ninja theme running through the day, hence the ninja stars for the grooms men. The couple gifted each guest with, among other things a ninja Lego man. These were put at each table place and, despite childish appearances, looked really cool! The Perfect Wedding! While it was minus three degrees outside during the day, falling to minus 13 by the end of the evening, it was nice and warm inside. It was a very happy day. No one was stressed, as can often be the case at weddings. It was one of the largest weddings this venuehad done, and certainly the largest we had done. However, everyone had a blast; even the hotel staff and management who had been concerned about the number of guests. With the size of the guest list; the need to find another venue after initially booking another, to the weather concerns, this was some story! As a member of the planning team I may be biased, but this wedding was perfect!! The Couple For their part, the couple were great to work with! From the start they were aware of potential cultural differences between organizing a wedding in Japan and Australia. Even when the first venue fell through, due to the number of expected guests, they never panicked. This was the first time we had organized a complete wedding and reception at a venue that neither the bride nor groom had ever laid eyes on. And it was the biggest wedding we have done to date. Despite this, they trusted us entirely. And for that we offer our sincerest thanks and appreciation to the couple. Summary: A year of planning for a wedding at a venue neither the bride nor groom had ever laid eyes on, was an unprecedented success and, more importantly, was the beginning of a lifelong friendship – we love you guys! What did the couple say? From TripAdvisor “My husband and I thought we would have a smiple, small wedding in Hakuba with a few friends and family. To our surprise, over 100 guests RSVP’d and our venue could no longer accommodate us. At this point we found Ross and Ayako. We had completely under estimated the work involved in planning an overseas wedding. Ross and Ayako explained the cultural differences between a wedding in Australia v Japan, they set expectations so that there were no surprises, they found us a new venue, helped us plan before and after wedding events for our guests and were in constant communication with us during the whole process. Our wedding went off without a hitch and we had the most amazing day. If there were any problems on the day, we had no idea because Ross and Ayako handled absolutely everything. Aside from saying YES to my husband, hiring Ross and Ayako was the best decision we made in this whole process. We definitely would not have been able to pull off such a fantastic day without them!”

Bringing Traditional Japanese Music to Your Japan Elopement When people initially get the idea of elopong in Japan, images of serene gardens, tea houses, and ancient traditions will often come to mind. But there is another element that is often over looked, but can absolutely transform an already intimate elopement into something truly special: the sound of the koto . The koto , a 13-stringed zither with roots stretching back over a thousand years, is one of Japan’s most iconic instruments. Its gentle, flowing tones evoke the rhythm of nature: water rippling in a stream, wind moving through trees and even the quiet passage of time. In the setting of a wedding, the koto does more than provide background music: it creates atmosphere, anchoring the moment in Japanese culture and history. Why Include the Koto in Your Elopement in Japan? If you are familiar with our services and have read some of our recent blog posts, you will know that one of the missions of our founder, Ayako Harrison , is to share the unique beauty of Japanese culture with our couples on their wedding day. We do this through experiences such as wearing kimono , taking part in san san ku do , incorporating the red string of destiny , and enjoying the tea ceremony . Adding the sound of the koto is another way we love to share the richness of Japan’s traditions with you. Aside from our personal mission, there are also a number of other reasons why you might want to include the sound of the koto in your Japanese elopement, among them: An Authentic Soundtrack : Whether played during a tea ceremony, your vows, or simply as you enjoy the quiet of a private villa, the koto provides an evocative soundscape that makes your day feel distinctively Japanese. Cultural Depth : Much like the tea ceremony, the koto is steeped in ritual and artistry. Together, they embody harmony, respect, and mindfulness—the very same values that make an elopement so meaningful. Intimacy and Presence : Unlike large ensembles or recorded music, a solo koto performance feels personal and immediate. Each note resonates in the room, making you pause, breathe, and be present with your partner. Whether inside a tea house or outside in a beautiful garden a koto can add a touch of magic to a magical day. The Perfect Pairing: Tea Ceremony and Koto You are in a beautifully preserved villa or tea house, your tea ceremony unfolds with graceful precision. As the host prepares and serves the tea, the quiet pluck of koto strings lingers in the background. The ceremony becomes not only a visual and sensory experience but also an auditory one, deepening your connection to the moment, and to each other. This pairing of tea and koto brings two of Japan’s most treasured traditions together, creating a memory that feels timeless. It’s not just a performance. It's an invitation to slow down, reflect, and celebrate your marriage with intention. The Power of Music in Your Wedding Just as we invite you to experience other traditions like kimono, san san ku do , the red string of destiny, or the tea ceremony, we also see music as a bridge to culture, memory, and emotion. Everyone has probably experienced firsthand how music can completely transform a scene. Music can shape an atmosphere. A melody doesn’t just decorate a moment:it defines it. The koto, in particular, carries a resonance that: Transport You Back in Time : Just as a scent or a photograph can spark a memory, music instantly carries you to a moment. Years later, hearing the koto again will take you straight back to your wedding day in Japan. Deepen Emotion : The right piece of music doesn’t just sit in the background. It heightens every feeling. During a tea ceremony, the koto amplifies the sense of calm, reverence, and intimacy. During vows, it brings a subtle layer of tenderness and weight to your words. Shape Atmosphere : Music has a way of filling a space without overwhelming it. The sound of the koto, in particular, blends seamlessly with the natural textures of a villa, garden, or tea house, enhancing the moment rather than distracting from it. When you combine music with ritual, whether it’s the slow precision of the tea ceremony or the exchange of vows, the experience becomes multi-sensory, immersive, and unforgettable. The sound of the koto adds a touch of magic to an already special day. A Touch of Magic for Your Day For couples seeking something beyond the ordinary, adding a koto performance to your elopement is a way to honor Japanese culture while creating an atmosphere of elegance and calm. It’s a detail your guests (if any) will never forget, and one that will stay with you long after the last note fades. Feel free to reach out today to see how we can create the perfect elopement experience for you.

An Ancient Belief in Love Meant to Be Skip to scannable FAQs about the Red String of Destiny: Here Across East Asia, one of the most beautiful and enduring beliefs about love is the red string of destiny . According to this legend, every person is connected by an invisible thread tied around the little finger, linking them to the one person with whom they will make their history. No matter the distance or obstacles the string ensures that destined lovers will one day meet. The Legend of the Red String The story actually originates in Chinese folklore, but has long since spread across Asia, including Japan where it is called unmei no akai ito (運命の赤い糸) which literally translates to " the red string of fate/destiny. " Tradition says that the gods tie an invisible red cord between two people who are meant to be together. Unlike a fragile piece of thread, the red string is unbreakable. Despite how tangled or stretched it might get, as the belief goes, it will never sever. This idea brings comfort and hope: even if your path seems uncertain, your true partner is already bound to you. This is especially relevant in the 21st century when work-life balances, societal pressures, and the sheer pace of modern living can make relationships feel fragile or even fleeting; the legend tells us that love is not accidental, but destined, and that despite the challenges of our times, the right person will always find their way to us. Symbolism in Japanese Culture In Japan, the red string has appeared for centuries in poetry, literature, and more recently in popular dramas and manga. It represents not only romantic love but also bonds of destiny that feel too significant to be explained as mere coincidence. The color red itself carries meaning; in Japanese tradition, it is a symbol of protection, passion, and life force. It appears often in weddings, whether in ceremonial umbrellas, lacquerware, or embroidered details, and so the link between the red thread and marriage feels entirely natural. Today, the symbolism of the red string can still be seen in daily life. It appears as adornments on wedding cards, Valentine’s Day cards, and in small decorative knick-knacks that couples gift one another. These little touches remind us that the ancient story still resonates in the modern world. A Mission to Share Japanese Cultural Experiences At Elope in Japan , this belief ties perfectly into our founder Ayako Harrison’s mission. Since the beginning, she has been dedicated to sharing authentic Japanese cultural experiences, ideas, and customs with couples from around the world. Whether through the Tea Ceremony , San San Ku Do , or the sound of the koto , every element we include has been carefully chosen to connect you with Japan’s living traditions. The red string of destiny is another expression of this; timeless, beautiful, and deeply meaningful. Why Couples Embracing Elopements Love This Idea For couples traveling to Japan to marry, the red string of destiny often feels personal. Choosing to elope is itself an act of following a thread, trusting that your love for each other will lead you to the right place, the right time, and the right person. Some couples weave the symbolism into their ceremony. It might be a red ribbon tied gently around their hands during vows, matching bracelets exchanged as gifts, or as we like to do, each holding one end of a red string during part of the ceremony. Each gesture reflects the idea that love is not just chosen, but destined. Recognizing the message of the red string during a wedding ceremony. A Modern Expression of an Ancient Belief Although the legend is centuries old, the image of the red string remains timeless. In an age when love can cross oceans, borders and cultures, the idea of being connected by fate continues to inspire. It is especially true today, when so many couples navigate demanding careers, shifting societal expectations, and the constant noise of modern life. Against this backdrop, the red string of destiny feels like a gentle reminder: love is not random, nor is it something that can be rushed or forced; it is destined, unbreakable, and worth waiting for. For those eloping in Japan, a country where tradition and romance meet seamlessly, embracing the symbolism of the red string of destiny offers more than just decoration; it becomes a thread that ties your story to something larger, older, and just as enduring. FAQs about the Red String of Destiny What does the red string of destiny mean in Japan? Is the red string of destiny only about romantic love? How can couples include the red string of destiny in their elopement? Many couples choose to incorporate the symbolism into their ceremony with subtle but meaningful gestures. These can include tying a red ribbon around their hands during vows, wearing red thread bracelets, or as we like to do, each holding one end of a red string during part of the ceremony. Each approach is a way to honour the idea of destined love. Why is the red string often used in Japanese weddings? Does the red string of destiny appear in modern Japanese culture?

Introduction For many couples planning to elope in Japan, wearing a kimono is one of the most meaningful ways to connect with the country’s culture. But not all kimonos are created equal. In particular, it’s important to understand the difference between the ornate wedding kimono and the lightweight yukata you may have seen at summer festivals. Wedding kimonos carry centuries of history, artistry, and symbolism, making them a perfect choice for a ceremony, but they’re a world away from casual wear. In this guide, we’ll explore the history, styling, and symbolism of wedding kimonos, help you understand how they differ from yukata, and explain why wearing one as part of your wedding or elopement in Japan is both culturally respectful and deeply meaningful. Kimono vs. Yukata: Clearing Up Common Confusion Visitors to Japan often encounter yukata - casual cotton robes worn during summer festivals or at ryokan (traditional inns). Yukata are light, breathable, and easy to put on, usually paired with a simple sash. They are fun and comfortable, but not formal. Yukata are typically worn during the hot summer months and/or at traditional Japanese Inns as "room-wear". By contrast, wedding kimonos (uchikake, shiromuku, or iro-uchikake) are highly formal garments. They are made from luxurious silk, hand-embroidered with traditional motifs, and require professional dressing assistants to put on correctly. The weight of the fabric alone can make the experience feel ceremonial: quite literally wrapping yourself in Japanese tradition. Understanding this distinction is crucial: while a yukata might be fine for a casual stroll, a wedding kimono carries a completely different cultural and symbolic significance. The weight of the fabric alone can make the experience feel ceremonial—quite literally wrapping yourself in Japanese tradition. A Brief History of Wedding Kimonos The roots of the wedding kimono can be traced back to Japan’s Heian period (794–1185), when court nobles dressed in layered silk robes. Over centuries, this evolved into distinct ceremonial garments worn for weddings. Three main styles remain central today: Shiromuku (白無垢) A pure white bridal kimono symbolizing the bride’s willingness to be “dyed” in the colors of her new family. White represents purity, new beginnings, and spiritual connection. Iro-uchikake (色打掛) A brightly colored over-kimono often featuring rich embroidery of cranes, flowers, pine trees, or waves—symbols of longevity, prosperity, and good fortune. Hikifurisode (引振袖) A style more commonly seen in modern weddings, with long, flowing sleeves and trailing hems, often worn with bold patterns and vibrant colors. Each of these garments is more than just fabric. They are steeped in meaning, connecting the couple not only to each other, but also to centuries of Japanese artistry and symbolism. Shiromuku (白無垢) A pure white bridal kimono symbolizing the bride’s willingness to be “dyed” in the colors of her new family. White represents purity, new beginnings, and spiritual connection. Styling & Symbolism in Wedding Kimonos Every detail of a wedding kimono carries meaning: Cranes (tsuru): A wish for a long and happy marriage, since cranes are believed to mate for life. Pine trees (matsu): Symbolize steadfastness and endurance. Peonies and chrysanthemums: Represent beauty, prosperity, and longevity. Gold embroidery: A sign of wealth and celebration, catching the light to create a sense of radiance. The overall ensemble includes not only the kimono itself, but also traditional accessories like the tsunokakushi (a white headpiece symbolizing humility) or wataboshi (bridal hood), depending on the formality and style of the ceremony (neither of which are pictured in this post). Iro-uchikake (色打掛) A brightly colored over-kimono often featuring rich embroidery of cranes, flowers, pine trees, or waves—symbols of longevity, prosperity, and good fortune. Practicalities of Wearing a Wedding Kimono As beautiful as they are, wedding kimonos aren’t easy to wear. Unlike western gowns, they’re heavy, layered, and require expert assistance. A professional dresser will not only put the garment on for you but often stay nearby throughout the day to make sure the kimono and its long trailing hem stay in place. Because of this, there are a few things couples should keep in mind: Movement is limited: Wedding kimonos can weigh several kilograms, making walking slow and deliberate. They aren’t suited to long city walks or multiple location changes. Hands are occupied: Brides typically hold the kimono lightly in front to keep the hem lifted, which means bouquets aren’t traditionally carried. Instead, the kimono itself is the centerpiece. Temperature & comfort: The layers are warm; wonderful for cooler seasons, but less comfortable in summer. Support staff is essential: Dressing and moving in a kimono requires help. Expect an attendant to be present to assist with adjustments, photos, and transitions between locations. These practicalities don’t detract from the beauty of wearing a kimono—they’re part of the experience. Couples who embrace the slower, ceremonial pace often find that the process itself adds to the sense of gravity and meaning on their wedding day. Hikifurisode (引振袖) A style more commonly seen in modern weddings, with long, flowing sleeves and trailing hems, often worn with bold patterns and vibrant colors. See also the featured image at the top of the page. Cultural Appropriation? Not in Japan Many couples ask whether wearing a kimono might be considered cultural appropriation. In Japan, the answer is no. Far from being frowned upon, visitors are actively encouraged to experience kimonos, whether for weddings, tea ceremonies, or sightseeing. Kimono rental shops thrive in Kyoto, Tokyo, and other historic areas, precisely because locals want to share their traditions. The key is to approach it with respect . Choosing a formal kimono for your wedding, dressing under the guidance of skilled kimono professionals, and understanding the meaning behind the garment is seen as an act of appreciation, not appropriation. Why Choose a Wedding Kimono for Your Elopement? Wearing a wedding kimono during your elopement or vow renewal in Japan is more than a style choice: it’s a way to step into living tradition. As we shared in our recent blog post - San San Ku Do: What Is It? - our founder, Ayako Harrison , has always envisioned creating uniquely Japanese experiences that couples won’t find anywhere else. As such, incorporating cultural elements like the San San Ku Do and/or embracing the full elegance of a traditional wedding kimono are ways we bring that vision to life. For many of our couples, the kimono becomes one of the most memorable aspects of their day: the quiet ritual of being dressed, the weight of the silk, the intricate patterns symbolizing love and longevity, and the profound sense of walking into married life wrapped in history. Unlike western wedding gowns, which are often worn only once, the wedding kimono connects you to a cultural heritage that has endured for centuries, and ensures your photographs feel truly timeless. Choosing a formal kimono for your wedding, dressing under the guidance of skilled kimono professionals, and understanding the meaning behind the garment is seen as an act of appreciation, not appropriation. Conclusion Whether you choose the pure elegance of a shiromuku or the vibrant artistry of an iro-uchikake, a wedding kimono offers not just beauty but meaning. By understanding the difference between yukata and kimono, and by embracing the history and symbolism woven into every thread, couples can make informed, respectful choices about what to wear on their wedding day in Japan. And if, in your heart of hearts, you’ve always dreamed of wearing a kimono, embrace it. In Japan, no one will judge you; quite the opposite! You’ll find people genuinely delighted to see you honoring their culture in such a meaningful way. If you’re considering a wedding kimono for your elopement in Japan, we’ll be happy to guide you through the options and connect you with skilled professionals who will ensure the experience is as unforgettable as the garment itself.

The Meaning and Symbolism of Japan’s Traditional Wedding Ritual When couples think about eloping in Japan, one of the most memorable ways to connect with the culture is through its timeless wedding traditions. Among these, the San San Ku Do (三三九度) ritual stands out as one of the most meaningful. Rooted in history and symbolism, this sake-sharing ceremony goes beyond aesthetics, offering a powerful expression of unity, family, and commitment. At Elope in Japan , we believe your wedding should be more than beautiful photographs or video. It should be an experience you cannot find anywhere else. That’s why we offer couples the opportunity to include San San Ku Do in their ceremony, bringing a touch of authenticity and cultural depth that makes your day truly unforgettable. But, what is it? What is San San Ku Do? San San Ku Do, which translates to “three, three, nine times” , is a ritual performed during traditional Japanese weddings. Using three stacked sake cups ( sakazuki ), the couple takes three sips from each cup - first the groom, then the bride - until nine sips are shared in total. The name reflects this exact sequence: San (三) = three Ku (九) = nine Do (度) = times Simple in action, yet profound in meaning, San San Ku Do is one of the most iconic and cherished Japanese wedding traditions. The Symbolism Behind San San Ku Do Each element of the ritual carries deep symbolism: Unity of Two Families Drinking from the same cup signifies trust, respect, and the joining of two families. Three Cups, Three Sips Traditionally, the three cups represent: Heaven, Earth, and Humanity Past, Present, and Future The Couple and Their Families The Number Nine Considered auspicious in Japan, nine symbolizes eternity and lasting happiness; a wish for a marriage built to endure. In this way, San San Ku Do is not just a performance; it is a spiritual promise, sip by sip. Historical Roots The act of sharing sake has long been used in Japan to seal alliances and agreements. Over time, this practice became woven into wedding rituals, particularly Shinto ceremonies, where it symbolizes the sacred union of two people and their families. Today, even in modern settings such as villas, gardens, or intimate elopements, the ritual retains its power to connect couples with centuries of cultural meaning. At Elope in Japan, we like to bring the San San Ku Do out of the shrine setting and into our secular wedding ceremonies as a way of sharing Japanese culture with our couples. San San Ku Do in Modern Weddings While traditionally guided by Shinto priests, San San Ku Do has evolved to suit contemporary and international weddings: Self-led Rituals : Couples may perform it themselves with the guidance of an officiant. Alternative Drinks : For those who don’t drink sake, wine, champagne, or tea can be used while maintaining the symbolism. Family Participation : Parents may be invited to take part, symbolizing the blending of families. Personalized Cups : Some couples choose specially designed cups as keepsakes. Simplified Versions : Instead of nine sips, couples may adapt the sequence to fit their ceremony flow. These adaptations show how San San Ku Do remains a living tradition: flexible yet deeply rooted in meaning. Why Couples Choose It For couples eloping in Japan, San San Ku Do offers a moment of reflection and intimacy within the ceremony. It is a reminder that marriage is not only about celebration, but about promises, respect, and unity. By including this ritual, couples can feel connected not only to each other but also to Japan’s cultural spirit, making their wedding day all the more memorable. Experiencing San San Ku Do with Elope in Japan Ayako Harrison, founder of Serendipity Flower & Wedding and the creative force behind Elope in Japan , built the service on a simple vision: to create uniquely Japanese experiences that couples won’t find anywhere else. One way we bring this to life is by weaving meaningful Japanese wedding traditions directly into your ceremony. San San Ku Do is a perfect example: an elegant, authentic ritual that many international planners may overlook, but one we are proud to offer our couples. Whether performed in a traditional villa, a serene garden, or against the backdrop of a Shinto shrine, we ensure that this centuries-old practice feels natural, personal, and memorable. We believe that it’s the small details like these that make your elopement with us truly unique. Conclusion San San Ku Do is more than a ritual; it is a symbolic promise shared sip by sip. Rooted in centuries of tradition, it weaves together family bonds, spiritual balance, and a couple’s journey into one elegant act. For couples eloping in Japan, incorporating San San Ku Do adds depth and authenticity to the ceremony, transforming it into a meaningful experience that connects the past, the present, and the future. R each out today and let's see how we can weave the San San Ku Do into your elopement and create a moment of lasting meaning.

Skip to the meat of the article: How much does it cost to get married in Japan? How much does it cost to get married in Japan? This is the million dollar question! How long is a piece of string? In the years since we started doing this business, we have been given shoe string budgets, tight budgets and ample budgets to work with. Sometimes it has been easy to put together the perfect plan for our couples, and sometimes it has been a challenge. The challenges are often exacerbated by social media. The ubiquitousness of Instagram and Pinterest have enabled brides everywhere to dream big when it comes to their wedding day. Dreaming big is great! We love it. However, what the Instagram and Pinterest posts often fail to mention, is just how much it costs to hold the perfect ceremony/reception in the perfectly decorated venue at the perfect time of year. I am sure you have all seen those gorgeous images of beautiful brides in their designer wedding dresses standing on stunning, curved staircases that have been spectacularly decorated with hundreds or even thousands of fresh flower garlands. Those photos are mind-blowingly beautiful, and a wonderful testament to the creative minds that think up and execute such exquisite settings. However, as beautiful as these photos are, they can often give brides-to-be an unrealistic expectation of what can be achieved in the confines of most people’s budgets… The sad truth is, that the costs involved in creating such Instagram masterpieces are far more exorbitant than many realize. The cost of the above scenario alone will exceed what most couples might want to spend on a complete elopement, or in some cases an entire wedding. For a start, flowers are not cheap. The cost of purchasing the flowers to decorate the said staircase will come into the thousands of dollars, possibly the tens of thousands of dollars! Then there are the man-hours that need to be accounted for. A small army of florists will be required create and hang the garlands. The photographer(s) also needs to be paid, not just for the photoshoot but the editing and touching up that takes hours following the shoot. And then there is the dress… Woah… The point I’m trying to make is that costs for this single shoot alone would be more than most elopements! Now, this post is not about scaring you away from the idea of an elopement in Japan, but rather to empower you by illustrating that it can be done without breaking the bank. If you want to splash out and go all out for your special day, more power to you; we will be glad to help your vision see the light of day! In this post, we will explore some of the typical costs of an elopement in Japan and then also compare the differences between micro-weddings and weddings in general. It is prudent to note that the costs quoted are best estimates based on years of experience in the industry, and that prices are subject to change over time and in accordance with market conditions. An intimate ceremony followed by a photo-shoot in quintessential Japanese surroundings is accessible to everyone. All events are different Each couple has a unique vision, which in turn requires a unique set of vendors and timelines. This inevitably means that costs will vary, sometimes greatly, from couple to couple. This makes it hard to suggest one price and partly explains why we don’t display prices on our website. Ayako and I have often debated among ourselves about whether or not to display prices on our website. Indeed, it is a common question that many people in our industry and wedding related industries have to contend with. There are many reasons for and against doing so. However, since we are planners, most pricing is out of our control. Vendors and venues will change the pricing all the time, depending on market conditions, the time of year and demand, among other factors. Because of this, we abandoned the idea of having set plans with set pricing menus a long time ago, in favor of presenting ideas from which to build unique events for all our couples, within a budget that works for them. However, it is only natural that the first question people ask is “how much does it actually cost to elope in Japan?” The trip alone will require a substantial sum of money, so many couples will be keen to know how much their well earned cash will stretch for an elopement. After all, in a previous post we quoted that an elopement in Japan was much more cost effective than a wedding in one’s home country. So how much does it actually cost to elope in Japan? Before we get to that question we have to be clear on how we define the three different types of weddings people often inquire about. Elopement : a ceremony and photoshoot for the couple and/or up to five guests; typically 5 hours on the day Micro-Wedding : small wedding with up to 20 guests; typically 7 hours on the-day Wedding : 20+ guests and full day assistance + day before So, what’s the difference between the three? We regard an elopement as a ceremony and photoshoot with just the couple and perhaps one or two guests. Our cut off point is 5 guests, after that, in terms of logistics, it really turns into a Micro-Wedding. A micro-wedding is somewhere between an elopement and a full wedding. The venue might be low-key but the reception/party might be a full on service, or vice-versa. The number of guests however, can make outdoor planning a tad more challenging than a simple elopement. A wedding on the other hand, is an out-and-out full-day affair, sometimes two or three days including setting up and taking down. Guest numbers might reach the low hundreds. Full on catering services are required and - depending on guest numbers - can take the lions share of the total costs. How much does it cost to get married in Japan? Elopements Elopements typically take up to 5 hours, including the preparation time. After this, most of our couples will complete their celebrations with a romantic dinner for two or simply continue on with their trip. (NB: All costs in Japanese Yen - ¥) A typical Kyoto garden elopement might cost somewhere between ¥750,000 ~ ¥950,000 and include the following: Planning, coordination, in-house officiation, bouquet, simple ceremony decor, if venue permits. Travel and accommodation for Ayako and Ross (round trip from Tokyo) Photographer + Travel (Photographer based in Tokyo) Venue Dinner Research Hair and makeup Photographer fees vary greatly, starting at around ¥90,000 per two hours - ie the ceremony and photoshoot afterwards. For a more extensive affair, including preparation photos, extending to around five hours, it typically comes in at anywhere between ¥100,000 and ¥300,000 for photoshoot and editing. However, it is not unheard of for photographers to charge in excess of this. How much you pay will depend on where your priorities lie. Needless to say, travel and accommodation costs are extra. Add ¥10,000 ~ ¥80,000 for this, depending on where they are based. Currently, our photographers are based in Tokyo. The venue in the above scenario is a private garden, coming in at around ¥150,000. For other venues you might be looking at costs ranging from ¥100,000 for a public space up to ¥1,000,000 to hire out completely. Hair and Makeup : this can be done by a freelance who will accompany us on the day or at a salon which we visit at the start of the day - average costs for this might be around ¥40,000. In this scenario we used a local hair and makeup artist who did not accompany us at the ceremony and shoot. Going to a salon, might in fact be cheaper, starting at ¥10,000. Should the you require kimonos , as many couples do, then you’ll need to add a further ¥130,000 ~ ¥180,000 to your budget - but this includes hair and makeup, so this does not need to be considered separately. Kimono fitters, will always accompany the bride and the groom to the cermeony and photo-shoot. For decor, couples sometimes request a flower arch for the ceremony location. This is a great accent to any location - assuming we are allowed to bring external decor in. However, just like the staircase example at the beginning of this post, it can be more expensive than expected. We were once quoted ¥100,000 for a simple floral arch for a location near Mt. Fuji… I know right?! It did include delivery and assembly, but it is still more than some couples might be prepared to pay… For Tokyo based elopements, just subtract the travel. Possible total costs might be as follows (ballpark estimates): Kyoto, without kimono: ¥750,000 ~ ¥950,000 Kyoto, with kimono: ¥850,000 ~ ¥1,500,000 For a shrine/temple weddings in Kyoto, costs vary greatly. Expect to pay at least an extra ¥200,000, possibly as much as ¥800,000. Tokyo, without kimono: ¥620,000 ~ ¥850,000 Tokyo, with kimono: ¥770,000 ~ ¥950,000 For shrine weddings in Tokyo, ceremony costs are generally more confined to around ¥130,000 ~ ¥200,000 A private ceremony at one of Kyoto's world heritage temples. Micro-Weddings We consider a Micro-Wedding to be up to 20 guests, including restaurant/reception venue support on the day for a total of around 7 hours. In addition to the ballpark costs we calculated for an elopement, you will have to consider reception venue / restaurant fees. Furthermore, for the extended time expectations, vendors will also charge a little more than for an elopement (which might typically last 5 hours). Again, the venue will be a big variable and so too will the reception, if it is in a different location. The number of guests can put a strain on some of the venues we might use for an elopement, and make it difficult to obtain licenses for outdoor locations. So we might have to look elsewhere. Generally speaking, with guest numbers ranging from 5 ~ 20, we are not able to use some of the public places we might use in a low key elopement. Therefore, we have to limit our searches to private or remote locations, each with their own cost and logistical challenges. Venue hire for Micro weddings might start at ¥110,000, either per hour or for the day, rising to ¥200,000 for the day. On top of this you’ll need to consider catering, which, depending on vision, might be as little as ¥5,000 to ¥20,000 per head. All things considered, you could expect to pay a total of around ¥800,000 ~ ¥1,250,000 Weddings Pre-COVID, most wedding venues in Japan might have capped the number of guests at around 80 ~ 100. On the whole, weddings (and wedding venues) are smaller than they are in the west, and unlike the west, they are not whole day affairs. Most reception venues have a two hour time limit that may or may not be extended in 30 minute increments. Because of this, many couples choose to plan a “ni-ji-kai” (second Party) or even a “san-ji-kai” (third party)! Photographers and hair & makeup artists will also have a separate whole day fee for weddings, which might come in a twice their elopement rates, perhaps up to or exceeding ¥250,000. Reception venues will also add service charge and tax, coming in at an extra 20% in total. This can be a considerable extra expense which can take people by surprise. Needless to say, costs for weddings probably vary far more than elopements and micro-weddings due to the infinite number of moving parts and time involved. Total costs might range from ¥1,500,000 ~ ¥5,000,000. Is it all really worth it? Absolutely! Perhaps with the exception of a high-end-all-the-bells-and-whistles-wedding, getting married in Japan, with travel and accommodation either side, can definitely be far more cost effective than getting married at home. An elopement or micro-wedding in Japan is very feasible for most couples. The choice of venues, locations and settings can really make the whole thing worthwhile. After all, you are investing in memories that will last long after the final photo is taken. For a more comprehensive idea of how much you can expect to pay, please get in touch and lets start talking. Quick Start Guide: Elopements Costs Planning Tips Gallery Legal Why Hire A Local Planner

Elope in Tokyo, a city of history and tradition. A city which can offer a uniquely exciting and romantic backdrop for couples seeking to elope in Japan. Whether you envision exchanging vows surrounded by sleek skyscrapers or in the serene beauty of a traditional Japanese garden, Tokyo has something for every couple. For those looking to keep their elopement intimate yet memorable, this city provides opportunities to capture breathtaking moments, combining old-world charm with modern chic. A City of Contrasts: Traditional Venues Amidst a Modern Cityscape For many couples choosing to elope in Tokyo, it is the chance to contrast traditional beauty with the vibrant energy of a modern metropolis. Tokyo offers a range of beautiful, historical venues that provide the perfect atmosphere for your wedding ceremony. And you are never far away from the night-lights of downtown, for post ceremony photos! For those looking for a traditional setting, ancient shrines create a stunning contrast with the hustle and bustle. These sacred venues bring a timeless charm to your wedding, allowing you to experience the profound cultural heritage of Japan while still immersing yourselves in the fast-paced energy of Tokyo. You can exchange vows in a venue that feels like it’s stepped straight out of a Japanese fairy tale, with wooden beams and lush, manicured gardens framing your day. On the flip side, if you’re more inclined toward modern venues, Tokyo boasts some of the most stylish and luxurious spaces, from elegant hotels with panoramic views to chic rooftop lounges. You can infuse your elopement with a contemporary edge, while still embracing the romance and intimacy of a small, private ceremony. Private Venues for the Ceremony One crucial thing to consider when planning your elopement in Tokyo is that ceremonies cannot be held in public spaces due to permitting restrictions. While you may be dreaming of exchanging vows in a park or by a tranquil lake, you’ll need to arrange for a private venue to officially hold the ceremony. The good news is that Tokyo offers a selection of stunning private venues, ranging from traditional Japanese houses to sleek, modern spaces. For couples seeking a deeper connection with Japanese culture, one of the more exclusive options is a forward-thinking shrine located close to the heart of the city. Unlike many shrines in Tokyo, which are typically off-limits to foreign weddings, this progressive shrine welcomes couples from abroad. The beautifully manicured grounds provide an idyllic setting, with traditional tori gates, beautiful gardens, and meticulously designed buildings creating a dream-like environment for your special day. Not only does it offer a uniquely Japanese experience, but it also provides convenience, being located just a short distance from central Tokyo. Post-Ceremony Photoshoots: Tokyo’s Stunning Backdrops While the ceremony itself needs to take place in a private venue, Tokyo offers plenty of stunning public spaces for post-ceremony photoshoots. This is where the city’s mix of old and new truly comes to life, giving you the chance to capture stunning photos at some of the city’s iconic landmarks, Many couples opt for a photoshoot in one of Tokyo’s lush public gardens, where beautifully maintained landscapes create an enchanting backdrop. These gardens provide a sense of serenity and romance, with winding paths, stone bridges, and picturesque ponds, perfect for capturing the magic of your special day. The contrast between the natural beauty of the gardens and the towering skyline in the distance makes for some truly memorable photos. One important thing to keep in mind about garden shoots is the need to obtain permits and follow regulations. Many gardens only allow kimono shoots, with only a handful permitting wedding dresses. This is why it's essential to work with an elopement planner. The last thing you want during your romantic photo shoot is for an official with a clipboard to ask you to leave! For a more urban feel, couples can head to the bustle of Shibuya Crossing, Kabukicho or Tokyo Station, all world-renowned symbols of Tokyo’s energetic modernity. Amid the bright lights and the crowds, your photos will capture the thrilling pace of the city, making for a fun and memorable juxtaposition against the intimate nature of your elopement. Other striking urban options include the Tokyo Tower or the futuristic skyline of Odaiba, offering a range of iconic modern backdrops for your post-ceremony moments. Elope in Tokyo with the Perfect Plan When planning your elopement in Tokyo, it’s essential to keep in mind the logistics. As mentioned, hiring a private venue is necessary for the ceremony itself. You’ll also want to consider hiring a professional wedding planner or coordinator - which is where we come in - to help navigate the complexities of permits, venues, and photography locations. This ensures that your elopement is as smooth and stress-free as possible, leaving you and your partner to enjoy every moment. Whether you’re dreaming of a quiet, traditional ceremony in a shrine or a chic modern celebration, Tokyo has it all. With its blend of rich history and cutting-edge style, Tokyo promises a wedding experience unlike any other – one that you and your partner will cherish for a lifetime.

Nestled in the heart of Japan, Nara is one of the country’s ancient capitals and a city steeped in rich history and beauty. Known for its UNESCO World Heritage Sites , temples, and polite deer (yes - they bow!) that roam freely through the city’s national park, Nara offers a picturesque and romantic setting for couples seeking an unforgettable elopement. Whether you’re drawn to its cultural significance or its natural beauty, Nara provides the perfect blend of tranquility and historical charm for a perfectly intimate and memorable elopement experience. One of the most enchanting ways to elope in Nara is with a semi-private ceremony in an old tea house , hidden within a beautifully landscaped Japanese garden . This serene setting not only embodies the elegance of Japanese culture but also offers a tranquil escape from the bustling world outside, making it the perfect spot for a romantic and personal ceremony. A Tea House Ceremony: Tranquility and Tradition Imagine exchanging vows in a traditional tea house, where the sliding wooden doors open to reveal a meticulously designed garden. This intimate setting, with its simple yet elegant architecture, creates a peaceful ambiance that allows the focus to remain on the couple. The soft rustling of leaves and the gentle fragrance of blooming flowers add a layer of sensory delight to the moment. Nara’s gardens are renowned for their seasonal beauty , offering a range of backdrops that change throughout the year. In spring, the public parks burst into life with cherry blossoms , early summer sees fresh greens and colourful blooms, while autumn brings a cascade of crimson and gold as the leaves change color all across the region. No matter the season, the tea house and its surrounding gardens provide an exquisite setting that evokes a sense of timeless romance. After the ceremony, the garden and park offers countless opportunities for stunning photos. The contrast of the couple's attire against the greenery, the stone paths winding through the landscape, and the reflections in the water all create visually captivating moments. The garden setting is both intimate and grand, making it perfect for capturing the essence of a private elopement. Nara Park: A Magical Setting for Photos Following the ceremony, a short stroll takes you to the iconic Nara Park , home to the city’s famous deer and several of its most renowned landmarks. The park's expansive greenery, dotted with historic temples such as Todai-ji and Kasuga Taisha , can serve as a breathtaking backdrop for post-ceremony photos. You might find yourselves walking hand-in-hand along the park's scenic paths, the ancient temples rising in the background while the gentle deer wander nearby, adding an almost magical quality to your wedding portraits. Sunset on Mount Wakakusa: A Breathtaking Finale To cap off your elopement in Nara, head to Mount Wakakusa , a small mountain located just behind Nara Park. A taxi ride to the top is well worth it, especially if timed with sunset. From this peaceful vantage point, you’ll enjoy a panoramic view of the city below , with the golden hues of the setting sun casting a warm glow over the rooftops, temples, and distant hills. Imagine capturing your final wedding photos as the sun dips below the horizon, painting the sky in soft shades of pink, orange, and violet . This elevated setting provides a sense of calm and wonder, perfect for reflecting on the beginning of your journey together. Why Elope in Nara? Eloping in Nara offers couples the chance to experience Japan’s ancient history and natural beauty in a deeply personal way. The combination of a semi-private tea house ceremony , the historic charm of Nara Park , and the breathtaking views from Mount Wakakusa makes for a truly unique and meaningful wedding day. Whether you're inspired by Nara’s rich cultural heritage or simply in search of a peaceful, scenic setting for your vows, this city offers everything you need for an unforgettable celebration. For couples looking for a wedding experience that is both beautiful and intimate, elope in Nara —and create memories that will last a lifetime.

No seating charts. No guest list politics. No pressure to perform. Planning a traditional wedding can feel like juggling expectations instead of celebrating love. Between family opinions, budgeting for a big reception, and trying to make everyone happy, many couples feel truly overwhelmed by it all.  And that is before they have even walked down the aisle! But what if you could let all of that go? What if your wedding day was just about the two of you: quiet, meaningful, and deeply personal? A private elopement in Japan offers exactly that: no guests, no stress, just freedom. Here’s why skipping the guest list might be the best decision you will ever make. What Is a Private Elopement? A private elopement, in the truest sense of the word, means it’s just the two of you.  There are no guests, no expectations and no audience. It’s not about secrecy or running away from something; it’s about running towards what matters most to the two of you. With no one to please but yourselves, you’re free to focus on connection, presence, and the meaning behind your commitment. In Japan, beauty is said to lie in the quiet moments.  With that in mind, a zero-guest elopement aligns  perfectly with the country’s deep appreciation for simplicity, mindfulness, and nature. Whether you’re standing beneath a centuries-old torii gate in a serene forest or in the private garden of a beautiful Temple, there’s a sense that the world slows down just for you. After saying "I Do" with zero guests present, they took a quiet walk through a secluded forest. The Emotional Freedom of a Zero-Guest Elopement With no guests watching, you can let your guard down completely; this is a big draw for many of our couples! The nerves that come with public speaking and the pressure to look or act a certain way all disappear when it is just the two of you. You can cry, laugh, whisper your vows, or simply stand in silence and soak it all in without worrying about anyone else’s reactions. It’s just the two of you, completely present as the day unfolds. Couples who chose not to invite guests often tell us that their elopement didn’t feel like a performance.  Instead, it felt much more meaningful than it ever could have if they were standing in front of a hundred or so guests, in a church. One bride told us, “There were so many things I wanted to tell him; there is no way I could have done so in front of so many guests. I would have lost my nerve!” This sentiment is echoed by many of our brides and grooms, for whom an elopement for two was the right choice. A zero-guests wedding allows ou to be unashamedly you! The Practical Benefits: No Drama, No Pressure Let’s be honest: traditional weddings can come with a lot of baggage: family politics; cultural expectations; plus-ones; seating charts, etc. And then there’s the cost! By eloping with no guests, you sidestep so much of the stress that can overshadow the joy of the day. A zero-guest wedding also gives you the freedom to reallocate your budget. Instead of paying for a 50-person dinner, you can invest in what truly matters to you, for example, a once-in-a-lifetime location, the perfect wedding dress (or kimono!), or a world-class photographer to capture every quiet, moment. With fewer moving parts, planning becomes simpler, faster, and much more enjoyable. And best of all? Fewer things can go wrong. There are no timelines to juggle, no speeches to manage, no expectations to meet. You wake up, get ready, and celebrate your love on your terms. With no guests present at their ceremony, they were free to chase the sunlight and ended up atop a nearby mountain at sunset! Why Japan Is Perfect for Guest-Free Elopements Japan is uniquely suited for intimate, guest-free weddings. The country is steeped in quiet beauty: shaded shrines, misty mountains, peaceful gardens, and centuries-old traditions that honor mindfulness and presence. You won’t stand out or feel awkward for being alone: solo travel and quiet exploration are built into the culture. Whether it’s Kyoto’s moss-covered gardens, the dramatic backdrop of Mount Fuji, or a quiet tea house in historic Nara, Japan offers you cinematic, serene settings without the need for an audience. And with a skilled local planner and photographer by your side, everything is taken care of, so all you need to do is show up and say "I do." Will You Regret Not Having Guests? It’s natural to ask yourself this question. After all, we’re taught that weddings are community celebrations. You may worry about disappointing loved ones or missing out on shared memories. That’s okay. But here’s the truth: choosing a guest-free elopement doesn’t mean your wedding is any less valid or meaningful. In fact, it often becomes more  meaningful, because it’s focused solely on your relationship, without distractions or compromises. When you think of it this way, it becomes the perfect way to start your lives as husband and wife! Eloping doesn't mean you are forgetting about your friends and family, neither are we suggesting you should! Many couples will celebrate with guests upon returning to their home countries with a dinner party or a slideshow. And there is nothing stopping you from making a simple video call on the day itself.  A lot of our couples say they didn’t feel like they missed anything by not inviting guests.  Instead, they gained something they didn’t even know they needed: space, presence, and peace. Following their "I dos" in a different location on the shore of the lake, this couple walked along the shoreline until sunset, without anyone in tow. A Wedding That Feels Like You Ultimately, eloping without guests allows you to reclaim your wedding day. Instead of ticking boxes or meeting expectations, you create a day that reflects you; that reflects your values, your love story, and your vision for the future - Your Day; Your Way! In a world that constantly pushes us to do more, include more, and be more, there’s something radical, and beautiful, about choosing less.  A quiet ceremony under cherry blossoms. A kiss in the shadow of a shrine. A moment where nothing else matters but the two of you. Guest Free Elopement in Japan = No Regrets Eloping without guests isn’t about cutting people out, it’s about creating space to focus on what truly matters: your connection, your promises and your love story. By letting go of the pressure and expectations of a traditional wedding, you gain something rare: freedom, presence, and peace. In Japan, where beauty lives in quiet moments and thoughtful details, your guest-free elopement can become more than just a ceremony. Ready to start planning a day that’s just about the two of you? Explore our Elopements Page and/or get in touch for a personalized consultation. We’ll help you create a wedding day that’s stress-free, meaningful, and uniquely yours. Because sometimes, saying “I do” in silence says everything! Just the two of them, in nature, basking in the moment.